My boyfriend is 32. he has been going thru his divorce for over a year. His parents never liked his ex wife they thought she was worthless and ruined their sons life. The ex does not like me of course and calls my boyfriend parents every week to tell them bad things the kids told her about me or us. all lies, or how she wants more money to buy clothes...she treats them like they are still her inlaws. to make matters worse for us my boyfriend parents agree with what the ex says and push thir son to give her money when she wants it. they dont argue the bad things said about us. why? because they do not want to make her mad because she might take the visiting rights of the grandkids away from them....she has signed the divorce papers but it is not final yet because she will not take the parenting class (allways an excuse). I am tired of tiptoeing around the kids because the ex gets jealous of our new life together. I am proud of our life. any suggestions?
2006-10-14 23:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by mnm4213 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't change other people's actions only your own. limit your contact with them. good luck
2006-10-14 23:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem for your partner to sort out. His ex-wife, his parents, his kids. He needs to sit his parents down and explain to them that the amount of child support he pays is none of their business and telling him to pay more will not be acceptable. Then he needs to sit his ex down and tell her that unless the emotional blackmail stops immediately, he will fight her for custody of the children all the way. If he is living in a stable relationship with you and the two of you together could provide a stable home for his children, his chances aren't half bad either.
2006-10-14 23:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f needs to make sure he has visitation rights and a court order that will back him up. His parents need to stop being wimps and support their son in all of this. To not do so isn't saying alot about them. Ignore the ex, whatever happens is going to happen.
2006-10-15 00:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the parents that if they really love ya than they will stop having him there what parent is gonna say no to the ultimate altermadem?
2006-10-14 23:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long you have been with him? attempt to do the comparable ingredient to him, provide me the comparable attitude, and spot how he reacts. additionally, whilst he asks you to do something, ask him to do it, yet attempt basically couple time each week, dont do it every time, coz he will think of you dont love him anymore, or he has excuses to combat/argue with you. wish those helps...
2016-10-19 10:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will change unless your b/f intervenes.
2006-10-14 23:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed, now lay in it.
2006-10-14 23:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to give your boyfriend an ultamatum
2006-10-14 23:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋