2006-10-14 22:56:34 · 43 answers · asked by crazybex2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wed lock is a piece of paper okayed by the state.But the true meaning of having a child is having on with a person u love if that child was created by two people who truly love eachother than no there is no problem. In religions yes there is always an issue.religions can never agree on anything. Though i have always been taught that the lord belives in love. Love is waht created the child. Not to mention getting married because of a child is not a reason to marry in the first place.it is all about love.
2006-10-14 23:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Wrong probably not.... Ideal probably not...
Raising a child is not an easy, it's a big responsibility. Children need love and nurturing, food, protection and the best care available.
Ever heard the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child?"
This ancient African proverb teaches eternal truth. No man, woman, or family is an island. But in these the lean and mean 2000s, community isn't always what it is supposed to be. We'd all like to think we live in a place where people care about others -- where people pitch in to help when things get rough -- where it's safe to leave the doors unlocked and let the kids play around outside.
This isn't always what we experience. Instead of community, we find alienation; looking for safety, we are attacked by crime; hoping for a better life for our kids, we encounter gangs and drugs and the lies of television. People often retreat behind closed and double locked doors and try to ignore their neighbors. Politicians preach envy and hate, dividing us further instead of working for reconciliation. Being poor these days just ain't what it used to be.
I hope you do not have to go down this road alone.....
2006-10-14 23:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened before marriage was invented ?
No a baby has nothing to do with wedlock. Society, throughout the world has it that it works better to have two people bringing up a baby. so I would suggest it works but that is not to say it doesn't work as a single parent or not being married.
People often say "wrong" which conjures up drama and false logic and extreme emotion. This craziness often blurs any quality conversation.
Often better to ask "what works" it gets better quality results.
Good luck and never let other people make you wrong !
2006-10-15 00:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No! I have two out of wedlock and I will continue to have everyone I get pregnant with even if I am not married because I do not believe in killing someone I created. That is a living thing inside of you from the time you get pregnant. Ideally it would be best to have then when you are married, but in todays society more and more people chose to be single parents for one reason or another. And a large number of those children born in wedlock wind up being raised by single parents due to divorce.
2006-10-14 23:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by twonew21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, as long as that innocent baby is loved and cared for having a married mum and dad makes no difference at all. Saying that it would be irrisponsible to go out and get pregnant just for the sake of it, having a baby is an enourmous responsibility and that baby deserves and needs a stable and loving home.
2006-10-14 23:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the child is wanted andloved is all that matters. I was born out of wedlock in the days it was a real stigma and social disgrace.....thank God those days are past. Don't listen to any who try to tell you different.
2006-10-15 12:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child deserves the privilege of having the input of both parents during raising.
2006-10-15 01:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends where you live. If this had been 30 or so years ago in the western society, it would have been deemed very wrong and very immoral. But society (Western) is now more accepting of this kind of thing.
2006-10-14 23:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Strange1am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In the UK the majority of children are raised outside of marriage. Marriage is quite an outdated institution. The key thing is caring and loving parents who are mature enough to raise children, not necessarily even together.
2006-10-14 23:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Quentin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if thats what you want , again yes if you can afford to keep it financially , its wrong to have a baby then expect the State to pay for it all its life!!
2006-10-14 23:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by TRUEBRIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋