Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

he is having a lot of issues at work.i told him what that has to do with us having sex?? if he have sex with me afterwards the problems will be still there.i told him either he is gay or have a girlfriend.what do you think?

2006-10-13 03:40:36 · 50 answers · asked by holla 2

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2006-10-13 03:39:39 · 28 answers · asked by techgirl95 1

My husband cheated on me and I still love him and dont really want to end our marriage but I would like to think that he wont do it again. We Dont have any children together so if I was to decided to leave the only one that would be hurt is me. Should I give him a second chance or leave it alone. Will I ever get over what he did? I mean I know I will in time, this is just really difficult and I know can't no one make a deision for me, but I would just like to hear some experiences & hopfully good advice leaning toward working it out.

If you are a man that cheated on your wife before or a woman whose had her husband cheat please respond and tell me how you handled it.

Thanks you guys hope this was enough info for you to help me out.

2006-10-13 03:39:38 · 23 answers · asked by Survivor 2

My wife of 7 years filed for divorce while I was away at war. We were getting along fine before I left. Could it be anything other than an affair? Does that necssarily mean her new guy is better looking and smarter or did he just give her attention when she was lonely?

2006-10-13 03:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-10-13 03:37:01 · 2 answers · asked by summer w 1

2006-10-13 03:35:15 · 52 answers · asked by lets talk 1

2006-10-13 03:32:21 · 17 answers · asked by Darrell G 1

My wife celebrated her birthday two days ago. I had some roses delivered to her job. As of today she has yet to even say thank you for the flowers. She found time to text me on the day before her birthday to let me know her mother would be picking her up on Wednesday after work. I'm sure she even had time to spoke to her mother on Wednesday, but didn't even make time to call me to say thank you. Should I just leave the matter alone and not say anything or should I confront about this? I consider this a total "slap in my face."

2006-10-13 03:25:59 · 16 answers · asked by kingjames1906 2

Well, i know its not a good idea to think about someone else when u r having kids and r married. i just dont know how should i stop myself.I tried meditation,tried to keep myself busy but nothing works out.Temporarily,it just goes out of my head and after some days it comes back.My husband never appreciates me whatever i do for him,when i talk to him he does not respond properly.I just dont like the way he behaves.I try to help him out if he has a problem with something.When i talk to him he will show me that he is very busy with kids,but then he will say that he is listening to me.When i ask him what did i say he doesn't knows anything.
I feel so bored at times that i feel like running away.Well what should i do, i dont understand.How can i stop thinking about this other guy,please help me.Just wanna get out of this!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-13 03:23:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 03:21:35 · 21 answers · asked by hatenhouston 1

and lack of exercise.I have tried buying helathy foods,of just cutting down on the portions of foods he's eating ,he refuses to do it 'because he just love food too much".I have tried everything talking to him, buying the healthy food and fixing smaller portions and he just does not seem to care (he says he's not depress) I'm starting to feel extremly resentful towards him for letting himself go and expecting me to accept it just because we're married,for some reason he thinks once your married you have to take whatever your partner dishes out.I'am starting to feel extremely resentful towards him. what can I do to stop this now,Before I jump off the fence.( if it was do to illness i would be ok But this is controlable)

2006-10-13 03:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby has had affairs several times and most of them lasted for over 9 months but he said that he never had sex with them. Should I believe him?

2006-10-13 03:18:24 · 32 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

I've always been afraid to let anyone in my heart completely so Im afraid to get married because i don't want to hurt the other person.

2006-10-13 03:17:24 · 14 answers · asked by Sweety 1

and pickd up this really hot blonde. she was sexy and just a real dream girl, we did it every which way we could. The motel room will never be clean after the the things we did. Well when it was time to leave the next morning I was scared out of my mind when my wife walked out of the bathroom. I ran to the bathroom and the blonde was gone. Do you think the wife killed her ? Or is role playing always this much fun ? :)

2006-10-13 03:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

We have been married almost 10 years and have two children under 5. We both work and over the last few years the lovelife degenerated to the 1-2 times a month phase. After a serious talk recently that has improved greatly (every other day) but the problem is she just doesn't seem to enjoy herself much anymore. I know about all the ramantic suggestions and when I suggest anything like that she says no she would rather just "get it over with" and go to sleep. Are there any good libido improvers out there for women. Other than this area the marriage is great, but for her it just isn't a problem for me it is starting weigh heavily on my mind. Suggestions?

2006-10-13 03:15:18 · 15 answers · asked by medic 5

im a godmother for the first time ever..and im real exicted by it..shes my first cousin....and my husbands friend is 30 in england and he says hes going to this party and not to the christening and i feel angry cause i want him with me for once cause he never comes to things with me..and its a big deal..may i also say..this friend didnt even wish my hubby a happy 30th birthday in july am i wrong to want him to be with me and not at his friends party?

2006-10-13 03:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4

I found out my husband knew this girl for 2years, they talked on the phone. They both say they never had sex. she said the kissed once, he said she kissed him, and he told her to never do that again. I asked him to take a lie detector, Is that aking too much?

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the test is $650. He said we don't have the money to waste on that. He also said if they were so reliable y they aren't used it court, he went on to further say either i believe him or don't

2006-10-13 03:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 03:08:10 · 20 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2

(2) Is it ok for a Man to cheat if he isnt getting any (S-E-X)?

Please answer both

2006-10-13 03:04:08 · 35 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

she is always complaining about the money she spends on me,cos i dont have a job yet,and she wont even allow me get an SSN for me to be able to get a job.

2006-10-13 03:03:59 · 20 answers · asked by boyo 1

What is a common law marriage in Mississippi. I have been living with my boyfriend over 5 years. I don't want to be a common law wife!

2006-10-13 03:00:56 · 13 answers · asked by mudcat_mom 3

We have 4 kids. Two were my husband's one was mine and the other is a 2 year old we had together. My mil favors one and fil favors the other. My mil told me she hated me and my daughter. and we had a war and she threatened to kill me 2x and so on. This was about 6 mo ago and I forgave her. My husband has said something over and over but they don't care. Now they want to take one kid somewhere that is like a zoo and a big deal. They can't afford to take all 3 of the big kids. I don't think she should go because the others can't. They say they need to be treated as individuals but they can't see that it hurts the kids when they do stuff like this. Problem is they only favor one. They don't take turns with the kids or it would be different. Hubby does not have enough balls to say no! Am I wrong??

2006-10-13 03:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Need Help! 2

2006-10-13 02:48:08 · 26 answers · asked by LAB 2

Im trying to find a website that has a good list for wedding gifts. something i wanna give my husband and he can do for me yearly. i know some are Silver, Wood, Paper i think. anyone know?

2006-10-13 02:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by natalie_rivera03 2

My husband can not stop lying to me. I guess it's partly my fault for being stupid enough to stay with him when I know everything he's lied about. He's addicted to porn, lied about the number of people he's slept with (there was a huge difference). He got tested for herpes just shortly after moving in with me a few years ago. He lied to me about how much my engagement ring cost (not that it matters to me how much it costs i just hate he had to lie about it). And this morning I came across a new e-mail address he just recently created in order to hook up with other married people. The inbox was full of personals and he was stupid enough to leave his log in info on the computer. I asked him about it and he said he needed a boost of confidence and for someone else to find him attractive.
I want to leave him but we have a 1 year old little girl and we've only been married for 3 months. Should I accept his excuse and move on or finally leave him?

2006-10-13 02:41:08 · 24 answers · asked by Chi1linVi1lain 2

2006-10-13 02:39:14 · 33 answers · asked by barry bucknell 3

Always remember--when a guy sweeps you off your feet, he is in the perfect position to drop you on your as*.

Have your say............ (",)

2006-10-13 02:34:46 · 39 answers · asked by DiL 3

My ex told me yesterday that he wants to give up his rights to our daughters. What does this mean for me?

2006-10-13 02:34:05 · 23 answers · asked by babe 2

We stay at her mothers house over the weekend for her father's Birthday> I was surprise to find a letter from a bank mailed to her moms house? It had ruffly $51 K in it. I asked her where all that money came from and she told me I owed it to her?????What ??Back in 1995 We used$ 71,000 to pay off All our debts so we could be debt free going into marriage. Most of what we paid off was my debt. That was 90% her money! She never told me she felt that way....about the money.. I transfer the rest of the money to make it to 71k and now I am controlling all our our different accounts...I am afraid if I wound not of caught her it would be 100k in 2 more year and just grow and grow.The only word for that is Stealing!!! I make all the money and she is a stay at home mom. and has never worked since we got married... She has her 71k nofw and she can use it any way she likes....

DO YOU THINK IT IS STEALING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE TO BE PUTTING MONEY AWAY WITHOUT YOU KNOWING???

2006-10-13 02:32:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

My name is Nivedita Mukherjee. My birth date is 18th of feb 1983 and timing is 06:45 am..My birth place is Murshidabad,West Bengal,India

2006-10-13 02:31:16 · 17 answers · asked by Mini 1