im a godmother for the first time ever..and im real exicted by it..shes my first cousin....and my husbands friend is 30 in england and he says hes going to this party and not to the christening and i feel angry cause i want him with me for once cause he never comes to things with me..and its a big deal..may i also say..this friend didnt even wish my hubby a happy 30th birthday in july am i wrong to want him to be with me and not at his friends party?
2006-10-13 03:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wouldnt know what hes supposed to do hes never with me
2006-10-13 03:14:49 · update #1
christening in ireland party england
2006-10-13 03:15:20 · update #2
No,..I think that he should be with his wife...isin't that the way things are supposed to be?
2006-10-13 03:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Killian's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok you have some place to be and he has someplace to be. Its kinds selfish that you want your hubby to change his plans for when I know you wouldnt do the same for him just to go to a party.
Its not mandatory for him to be there, and I'm sure if he really wanted to go he would go, so dont force him.
2006-10-13 10:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he should be there with you. He will be in this childs life when the child is with you also. If something would ever happen to the real parents god parents become default parent so he needs to bond with this child just in case!
2006-10-13 10:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not wrong try letting him know just how important this is to you, and christenings dont take long, so he can do both if he wants to.
2006-10-13 10:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should choose to go with his wife. It's time to put your foot down and tell him that hes gotta step up and be more supportive to you instead of taking you for granted.
2006-10-13 10:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so his friend didn't wish him happy brithday, big deal. Obviously your husband thinks more of his friend then he does of you...makes me wonder why the two of you got married in the first place.
2006-10-13 10:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not wrong. Your husband just wants to go do what is more fun instead of what's right.
2006-10-13 10:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm, did he bother to ask you to the party? This is family so it sounds like he does not respect family very much or you.
2006-10-13 10:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. As his wife he should choose you over his friend this is a big deal and he should be there.
2006-10-13 10:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong to want him there, but he has to make his own decision other wise he'll resent you later.
2006-10-13 10:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋