she is always complaining about the money she spends on me,cos i dont have a job yet,and she wont even allow me get an SSN for me to be able to get a job.
2006-10-13 03:03:59 · 20 answers · asked by boyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well tell her she biting herself in the bum init
you go and get whatever you need to get a job (with or with out her permission)
take control of your life and do stuff that will make her RESPECT YOU as a MAN again
and let her know that you are independent without out her money!
but show her you love her and talk to her and if she don't won't to listen pray for her
best advice i can give ya babe good luck* xxx
2006-10-16 08:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by L£X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't allow you to get an SSN, what are you a man or a mouse?Get out get a job and show her who's boss women love that.
2006-10-13 03:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you if they don't. And she can't stop you from getting a SSN just go to the Social Security office and get one. Then get a job
2006-10-13 03:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mistaken, if your wife didn't love you she wouldn't be with you. It sounds to me as if she's frustrated with the financial burden. You need to be proactive in getting a job or entering new training so that she can respect you more. This will relieve the pressure on her and your relationship. Good luck:)
2006-10-16 04:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soulful k the man said he ain't got a job so wr wld he get the money to give her.listen yer if she cares enough she will do her best to support u thru this and u as a man try harder ,and for the minute just take anything to show her u r trying i think she feels as if u r enjoying sitting on yr bum
2006-10-13 03:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by funkyspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women hate men for a reason, there must be a reason man.
i guess it's the money that made her feel frustrated, particularly she has to support you financially. get a job and start brining money in. she will change her peception about you.
2006-10-15 07:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a job that will give you some self respect and hopefully wife will start respecting you. Have some pride in yourself x
2006-10-13 03:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you, they either do or they dont and if they loved you once, then have tried to change you, they are mad!Move on and don;t waste time on people like this that are hard work, life is too short
2006-10-13 03:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by SunnyDays 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? or are you an immargrant?
everyone usually gets a SSN when there old enough like 18, or there parents get them one so when they turn 16 they'll have one for a job..
hmmm, something doesn't sound right!!!!
2006-10-13 03:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by chirpin' 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant make her love you and if she wont let you get a ssn then its her own fault
2006-10-13 03:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by Katie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋