Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

2006-10-13 06:43:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mike S 1

as soon as possible and feasible". Marriage is not any worth, if two persons have to keep making efforts to keep it kindling.

2006-10-13 06:40:33 · 6 answers · asked by mann54 2

The obediant knight is man who does what you tell him. period. I dont mean he is wimpy or scared of you or a "yes dear sad sack". He could be a Dallas Cowboys football player and a US special forces marine on the side, but when it comes to you he does all you ask and say. Your his Queen in other words and he is your willing knight (but a knight not a king or co-ruler -you are the monarch)
The Kingis a man who wants to lead you. I do not mean strong evil men (beat you, screams at you, treats you as a slave). Think of a strong but kind leader who does listen to you but basically makes the final decision. A king and you are a princess.
Or finally the 50/50 types. You are a Queen and He is a King and you are joint heirs in your kingdom (home) you both have to agree after you talk it over otherwise you wont do whatever the decision is.

Which of the above (if you had to choose) and why? If none of the above then what type would you want (give his 'type' a name if you like).
Thanks ladies!

2006-10-13 06:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by T. Watcher 2

This question is for people who intend to stay faithful to their spouses.

Sometimes I feel fairly strong feelings of lust for women other than my wife. This could be a woman at the mall, driving the car the next lane over, at the pool, at work, or wherever. I do not act on these feelings (other than looking), nor do I plan to do so. On the contrary, I am going to remain faithful to my wife.

Nonetheless, experiencing these feelings makes me feel guilty, but should it?

If so, what could I do to stop the lust other than staying inside my house 24/7 or gouging my eyes out? How do you stop yourself from feeling it when you begin to feel lust?

If not, what should I tell myself about feeling lust in order not to feel guilty about it? In other words, why is it OK for me to feel lust, under the circumstances I describe?

2006-10-13 06:36:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want my gurlfriend to ask me to marry her but she hasn't i asked her already and gave her a ring but she hasn't ask me and i waant her to i don't know what to do is it that she don't want to get marry with me

2006-10-13 06:32:45 · 12 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2

My husband and I have been married for 3 months. We are really struggling. We can take the smallest thing and make it into this huge fight. Our last fight I said I wanted a divorce, but I didn't mean it. I tried to take it back right after I said it but the words were already spoken. He had to go out of town for work and he won't talk to me. I call and he doesn't answer. I finally got a call from him a little while ago and he said he'd be home tonight. I asked if we were okay, he said yes, but it wasn't a very convincing yes. I feel like he said that because he is at work and doesn't want to get into it. I am so scared that this might be over. I wish that I could take back those words I said but I can't. Why is it so hard. Is marriage always like this in the beginning? Do you get through huge fights? Is it normal to have so many problems in the first year of marriage? Any experience on this would be helpful! Thanks

2006-10-13 06:30:48 · 36 answers · asked by faith 5

My husband got pissed off at me for something so stupid, but now I am sooooooo pissed off at him for being mad at me. Sound dumb? Now I can't stand to hear him or see him. Does anyone get like this?

2006-10-13 06:29:58 · 13 answers · asked by GQ69 2

My parents are going through such a hard time and I think this is the final straw. My father has left my mom and they are in their early fifties. I am 25 now today and I just want to know some information on how to deal with situations like this?

2006-10-13 06:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by Gina Beana 2

i've been in the market for a vibrator. mostly i would prefer one that is not too expensive but will work well. can anyone help me find one? all suggestions welcome

2006-10-13 06:16:10 · 17 answers · asked by mireya_adame 2

I am married and love my wife but sometimesI find myself fantasizing about having sex with other women. I Have never been unfaithful and don't intend to carry out my fantasies but I feel guilty about the thought.Is all this normal in a marriage?

2006-10-13 06:09:17 · 38 answers · asked by BlueLens 1

2006-10-13 06:07:37 · 27 answers · asked by mann54 2

2006-10-13 06:05:52 · 8 answers · asked by loverboy23 1

In other words, trade your job for your man/woman and abide by company policy?

2006-10-13 06:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by jami p 2

2006-10-13 06:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I personally think it is, if u kiss u may as well go all the way... i would like to hear others thoughts... PLEASE

2006-10-13 05:58:46 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 05:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by jami p 2

My clock is a ticking! I so ready to settle down and do the family thing. All they guys I met only want that one thing. I'm so over that. that's so highschool. Grow-up! Well, the men I meet every be ready for something serious and not all fun! At what age do guys typically marry!

2006-10-13 05:51:34 · 27 answers · asked by luvladyblue 3

that marriage had to be just one woman and one man. What if my appetites for relationships extend to more than one woman, why sholdn't I have two or three (provided everyone involved is agreeable) Financially it makes more sense (one could stay home with children while the other worked if she wanted to). What are your thoughts, be nice please.

2006-10-13 05:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by medic 5

My ex husband refuses to pay. He was court ordered to pay as of Sept 1. He motioned against it and lost. Now it is over a month and a half and still nothing. My attorney is going to Show Cause him to pay. From my understanding he can motion that too.

I am upset because I can not get a job until I have money to put my little guy in daycare. It would benefit him in the long run to just pay up.

He is taking trips and talking about buying a hot rod. He buys our son new toys for his house and then brings them to the police station where we have to meet for visitation, because of a domestic violence ppo against him. He makes our 3 yr old scream to take the toys. He does allow the toys to come to my house, but it is sick to show me the toys and make our son cry to get them.. Great he buys expensive gifts, what about food and clothing? He is a dead beat! I think my ex is in need of mental help. (No Laugh) He is sickly controlling. I am waiting for the FOC to evaluate his head!

2006-10-13 05:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by galbee 3

we have 2 beautiful girls and we've been on and off for 10 yrs, finally we decided to get married, because obviously there is something there that keeps drawings us back to each other. We trust each other 100%, but all we do is work, and stay home.. I've approached him on this issue, and told him I wanted a little more romance from him, and to do more as a family, He's been away most of his life, and hasnt really had a chance to date,. he used to buy me lingerie and take me out and just chill at home with fire and desire playin in the back round and just chillin,he's very goodlooking, smart, a hardworker, good husband, good father, he's just good overall. the only thing we're lacking is romance, and just communicating about issues like this, it just turns into an argument. He wants me to teach him how to romance or what romance really is to a women and i dont mind that, but i just want him to come up with his own way of romancing me or surprising. Any ideas on where to start?

2006-10-13 05:41:27 · 23 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2

Except your bedroom which other place you find safe to have physical fun with your partner or even your girl friend ??

2006-10-13 05:39:59 · 14 answers · asked by chemburbroker 1

Looked very big when I put it into the oven

2006-10-13 05:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by your pete 4

I'm 19 years old and my husband just turned 19. We fight almost everyday now that were married but it's over the stupidest stuff i try to let it go but it's hard to ignore it...ok here's the thing we have been married for about four months we were together for about a year and seven months. When we were just a couple he was living an hour away from me he was only 17 and living with his aunt who was very strict so we snuck...well he cheated on me twice when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend...well now that were married we still bring that subject up maybe cuz i can't forget about it and it bothers me he only cheated twice but we barley saw each other before and he got drunk..well he moved in with me on his 18th b-day that was his choice not mine and his family drives me nuts cuz now were married their mad at me for him moving out but it wasnt my choice he wanted to! We cant seem to forget about the past! Sometimes when we talk he brings up stuff i didn't even know b4 i need advice!!

2006-10-13 05:34:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine in India belonging to so called upper caste wants to marry a girl from so called lower caste with respected social status. But my friend's parents are against it. How do you think parents can be convinced so that everyone is happy

2006-10-13 05:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by nimmi 1

I have a hard time believing that all the men I deal with every day are this stupid. At work, they seem to have no clue where anything is or how to find it...however at any given moment can tell you exactly how much money is in the bank and who owes how much. You wouldn't actually be able to find your way into the receivables system to look at the information though...you just know it. You can't dial a number on the fax machine and press start but you can build a house, a commercial complex or a 50 story sky scraper...I'm not getting it. Is it the attention you like? Obviously your not lazy...at work anyway, so is it attention? Are you just trying to see how much you can get someone else to do for you?

2006-10-13 05:31:10 · 16 answers · asked by sasha 4

Been married for 7yrs.Hubby started to cheat 2 yrs into marriage.had 2 other women on the side.he refused all counselling and started being verbally abusive and critical.When he wanted to open his first business with his other women I told him he would drag on his *** before i ever supported that move.
3years on.4 more affairs on his side and one on mine that I broke off after 6 months and all he remembers are my words dragging on his ...)and my affair that he just continues to throw in my face.When I told my midwife and doctor and eventually the police about the abuse he said I tarnished his name and that if it affects his chances to get a job a lot of people are going to be hurt

P.S He still seeing 3 of these women

2006-10-13 05:20:24 · 52 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

My Step-Dad just was telling a story about a outing he & my husband went on last week where my husband was making comments about these 2 women being fine & sexy & all that stuff. Should I take it personally or just get over it? One was at our local bank & another was a local sales lady. I thought of saying something because we have always had problems of him & other women but he swears that he is a changed man. Answers Please!

2006-10-13 05:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by "karma" 4

Why don't some of you 'go dowhn'?


And why don't some of you like him to 'go dowhn'?

2006-10-13 05:14:13 · 23 answers · asked by tightlies 3

How were they treated by their co-workers, friends & family? Were they accepted or were they given a rough time?
What was the age diff?

2006-10-13 05:12:35 · 23 answers · asked by jami p 2

Everytime we argue there is always yelling, crying, etc. The problem is never big but, ends up being terrible because he brings up things in the past all the time. Arguements that are finished and not even a thought. Im not big on being right or wrong I just want the problem to be solved with both of us at agreement.

To me the arguement get so big is because too me he offends me by say im crazy or just nagging but whatever it is it has to be bothering me alot if im saying something. But, we rarely argue, Are there any suggestions for how to solve this problem?

2006-10-13 05:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by KeKe 2