The obediant knight is man who does what you tell him. period. I dont mean he is wimpy or scared of you or a "yes dear sad sack". He could be a Dallas Cowboys football player and a US special forces marine on the side, but when it comes to you he does all you ask and say. Your his Queen in other words and he is your willing knight (but a knight not a king or co-ruler -you are the monarch)
The Kingis a man who wants to lead you. I do not mean strong evil men (beat you, screams at you, treats you as a slave). Think of a strong but kind leader who does listen to you but basically makes the final decision. A king and you are a princess.
Or finally the 50/50 types. You are a Queen and He is a King and you are joint heirs in your kingdom (home) you both have to agree after you talk it over otherwise you wont do whatever the decision is.
Which of the above (if you had to choose) and why? If none of the above then what type would you want (give his 'type' a name if you like).
Thanks ladies!
2006-10-13 06:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by T. Watcher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for the sake of the argument when I mention decisions in my question I mean MAJOR decisions not small stuff. And of course Im assuming the woman and man are both normal functioning adults!
2006-10-13 07:08:11 · update #1
I would really like questions from the ladies please not men since I am interested in their ideas and perspectives. Oh and ladies no answer is a "wrong" answer I want to your honest views freely stated! :oD
2006-10-13 07:12:31 · update #2
er I meant "answers from the ladies" ...
so far : great stuff thanks !!
2006-10-13 07:29:52 · update #3
This is an excellent question. I think my answer is a little of each. If I had to choose one, it would be 50/50. I want an equal partner. I do not want to dominate and I don't want to be dominated. However; I would love to be the Queen and an equal partner to my King. I will happily follow his lead as long as he leads with respect and considers my input as an equal. I would love to be pampered, but I like to spoil him as well. So My answer is a combination of all three. I want to be 50/50 with him as King and me as Queen. (Great Question)
2006-10-13 06:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could happen. Probaby did. But not around the reniassance. Actually it depends. English reniassance? Because if so the knight class was long gone. They still knighted people and still do. But not in the sense of being a knight on horseback with armor. The yeoman who were part of the middle class became the main group of warriors. EDIT: @Haley: C.S.Lewis is a wonderful writer but no. LWW is a bad example. The Susan and Lucy were always destined to be Queens. They weren't knighted.
2016-05-21 23:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a knight. I wouldn't want to be bossy and expect that he does what I tell him too like the obediant knight. Someone who is strong, can make decisions, and has a soft side. Someone who treats me like a Queen. I wouldn't want to be thought of as his queen and he being my willing night because where is the connection in that. Not someone to lead me because I need to experience new things. But someone with confidence to be a great leader if needed. Someone who respects me.
2006-10-13 07:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to choose the Knight type of personality. The reason being is that I am a very dominating personality and thank goodness that my b/f is not. He is certainly not whipped by any means, but I do get breakfast and coffee in bed. He runs bath water for me at night...sometimes washes my hair and will give me massages. Trust me...all this care does not go unnoticed or unappreciated..he gets the same in return. He puts me on a pedistal and it's not so bad..that is until I fall off.
2006-10-13 06:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by tiggers123 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think man!!!
They want the same thing men want.
They want it all, but just at different times.
Would you want a sl#t 24/7?
Your mom would just love that!
But in the privacy of your bedroom that could be good.
Would you want a someone that NEEDS your leadership?
"Can you put gas in car? It's on empty"
"1%, 2% or non-fat milk?"
What about the 50/50 type 24/7?
"I picked up pizza and a movie on the way."
"I thought we were to discuss EVERY decision? ..."
It call comes down to a balancing act of their mix of characters and your mix of characters.
2006-10-13 06:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is my best friend- I guess acc. to you its 50/50. I do some and he does some. We are each better at things and together we have a great household. No one likes to be told what to do- I think that concept is wrong. But respect for each others traits or talents and bowing to that is love and smart....
2006-10-13 06:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50/50 type. In any relationship it should be equal. there are certain things in a relationship or marriage a man should do or is more qualified to do as such there is things in a relationship the women is more qualified to do.
2006-10-13 06:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The knight sounds pretty nice to me but that is just my opinion.
2006-10-13 06:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50/50, THAT IS HOW WE ARE NOW. JOINT DECISIONS ALWAYS.
2006-10-13 06:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋