2006-10-13 06:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately you can't!!! Men are always going to be pervvy but as long as he's coming home to you and being faithful, where's the harm? Don't try to tell me you wouldn't look when a stunning guy walks past?? We're all guilty!
2006-10-13 06:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by moominjen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop a man from doing anything. Your husband is a womanizer. First thing is talk to him and tell him how much this really hurts you. He has no respect for you to be drooling over other women. All men are going to look but he could at least be not so obvious. Second thing if he continues start giving him a taste of his own medicine start looking at other good looking guys and look and act the way he does when he is looking at those women. Third: When he is looking at these woman he might just like the reaction you give him when he is doing it. I would act as if it does not really bother you. If he says wow look at that ladies butt over there you should say something like yeah she does have a nice figure or well you should ask her if you can get some of that. He might just stop.
2006-10-13 13:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How disrespectful! Don't listen to the other answer-ers who say that all men do it. I've been with my husband for 13 years and I have never noticed him drooling over any woman but me. I am sure he notices attractive women, but he has enough regard for my feelings to be polite enough not to make it a big deal. I also make no issue over attractive men that are near me. That's kinda part of the whole "committed" to each other thing we signed up for when we got married.
Let your guy know that what he is doing is disregarding your feelings and is outright insulting to you. He might as well be flipping you off every time a female walks by. If he continues to do it you'll know that he doesn't care about whether or not he's hurting you. Then you can decide if the rest of your marriage is worth saving or not. If it is, go to counseling. If not, go find yourself something else to do.
2006-10-13 13:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to impose on him. It is not a good idea.
No woman likes to be with a guy who is checking out every single female passing by, they might tolerate it when the woman is really elegant or beautiful, but is uncomfortable if the case is the checking out of a sexy woman.
You might tell him you feel uncomfortable or diminished if your man is drooling over other women, you might ask him if he would mind your doing the same thing to him, if he doesn't mind, that would mean you are nothing to him, if he does, then you've got a point.
Every husband-wife relationship should be based in love and respect. As a man, to me is very hard to ignore a beautiful, elegant or sexy woman, even in front of my wife, but, since I love her, and I know she doesn't feel happy when I let my basic instincts go (by just looking at them), I refrain myself, and pretend I saw nothing, even if I wish I could turn around for a second look. This way I reassure my wife she is the most important woman in my life, this is not a let's pretend game, but a sincere denial of my own gratification to please my wife. It is my offering to her. It is like when you reject a delicious dessert even when you are hungry for it, to keep your diet and especially to look nice for your spouse. It doesn't mean it is easy, but in your value system, it is more important to please your spouse than to treat yourself.
But, it all depends on the terms of your relationship, how complete, how committed it is between you and your man.
Imposing a behavior just strains the relationship, it is better if there is understanding and consent.
Love is the answer.
2006-10-13 13:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by flamaobjetiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start looking like "the other women" Lose weight, get a makeover or something.
You will probably hate my answer, but it just the way the world is. EVERY MAN checks other women out, even the christian ones. We all do it, only a few will admit it. Looking its not a sin as long as he does it when you are not around or discretly.
I check other women out, but that's it. I dont say anything to them or touch them or think of anything else but the fact that they are HOT. I dont think of them when I am with my girl or wish my girl would look like them. I look and that's it. It the way the male brain works. It doesnt mean we are all cheaters, it means we are men,
Dont wanna lose him? be good to him in bed and put out often. No matter what he looks at, he will NEVER cheat on you, if you put out as much as he wants.
2006-10-13 13:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drool over hot men, then leave him for the hot men.
2006-10-13 13:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the big deal? i drool over Mario Lopez and my husband laughs at me
2006-10-13 14:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by forbidnfruit_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Once a drooler always a drooler. Maybe you can try letting him know how it makes you feel, and perhaps he will respect you and try not to be so obvious about it. Tell him to drool when he is by himself or with his boys.
2006-10-13 14:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by NeNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gonna look, he's a guy. Just tell him "Make me #1, ok?"
If he stares, drools, and disregards you, then he is being disrespectful to you and you can do better than him.
2006-10-13 13:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we married to brothers? I just asked that too about mine. Got great advice for it ,It's a man thing from what I've heard & it's nothing to worry about unless he acts on it. I feel very be littled by it & it really hurts so I wish you the best in handling yours.
2006-10-13 13:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋