2006-10-13 06:07:37 · 27 answers · asked by mann54 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
giving him a check card, i learned th hard way
2006-10-13 06:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have no regrets. Marriage is hard, it is something you have to work at. If you both love and communicate with each other there should be no regrets. Even if he or she empties out the checking account, or charges up the credit cards you married that person for better or worse. Instead of telling them about their problems you need to help them with it. Yes I know people can only change if they want to, but if you did then you are a better person for it. Even if the person didn't change at least you made an effort to help.
2006-10-13 06:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Gigglesalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrying him after 4 months of meeting him. Only basing our marriage and a relationship THAT serious on emotions, instead of using careful thought, consideration and most of all taking TIME to make sure I was doing the right thing.
I love him, but if I had gone about it the right way.....not only would I NOT be getting a divorce right now.......I would have never married him, so my feelings wouldn't be involved and hurt as they are right now.
2006-10-13 06:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret that I was naive. At first my husband was my everything to me . I honestly never even looked at another man in a sexual way. Then I discovered all of his porn, the dating web sites he goes on, and the strip clubs. After that I found it impossible not to think about other men. I guess I didn't know they were incapable of being faithful. Now that I know some days I don't feel I have the heart to be married.
2006-10-13 06:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I regret being untruthful or secretive to my husband about small things. I was only trying to keep some of my own identity as I felt I was losing it but in the end, I really hurt my husband and caused him not to trust me with the big things and not to believe me when I was being truthful and open.
No matter how hard it is just tell the truth girls! In the end it is so much easier than having to regain someone's trust.
2006-10-13 07:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by On the upside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i regret not following him when i felt the intuition something just wasn't right.than i could have saved myself alot of heartache of knowing, instead of believing him when he denied he was seeing someone else. i regret not confronting the other woman, and telling her how i felt.i regret that he chose to cheat and leave without even trying to save the marriage, i regret being so dumb to believe it was only a short separation, before i knew about her. i regret not getting to know him better before i married him, and not looking into his past better. had i followed my intuition i would never have married him in the first place, i regret all those years i wasted on someone who never loved me.i settled for less than i should have, and i stayed in the marriage way too long.i am mostly angry at myself for not seeing the truth,and being so easily decieved.i regret the way i allowed him to treat me and my children.I regret not thinking more of myself and staying with a man who was so selfish.
2006-10-13 06:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married
2006-10-13 06:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by BDP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my current marriage, nothing at all......my last marriage, that i did not end it sooner, but who is to say that i would have the life i have now had i ended it sooner.....so if to regret is to change anything, i would not.......i would do it all over again if i had to, to be where i am now. I have learned a lot and I am VERY happy where I am in life now.
2006-10-13 06:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i regret having an affair it was the worst thing i could have ever done i wish i would have thought before i reacted i was domb as hell . i hurt every body in my family with my selfish *** . because i love my husband and i hurt him very much that what i regret most in my marriage
2006-10-13 06:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking my sweet husband for granted. Making him have all the answers to our problems. Putting all the blame on him. I regret hurting him for no good reason other than being nasty. Love your Man!
2006-10-13 06:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving him the pin numkber for the ATM machine for my savings account. Bad idea.
Giving up my career to get married and move away with him. BAD DECISION.
Got married too young (23).
Good luck
2006-10-13 06:17:12 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋