Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

why is my hubby so addicted to war of the worlds? When he comes home from work he starts playing and when he gets up the in morning he starts play. I prob spends 4-6hrs a day playing. Whats the appile?

2006-10-13 14:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by cc 4

2006-10-13 14:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by Mark 2

For 3 years I've been honlding on ...Now that my wife is with another man she still saying that she loves me but she still having sex and seeing this other person ..for almost 3 years....I've been holding for that long..but now every time i see her i feel pain and i feel anger, upset ....I feel numb inside me.

2006-10-13 14:31:40 · 36 answers · asked by LOST IN THE MIST 1

2006-10-13 14:27:49 · 65 answers · asked by 5431 1 1

This question is sort of directed at married folk, but feel free to answer even if you're not. People say you should save yourself for marriage because when you have sex you lose a part of yourself. Is this true? Does anyone in a loving marriage now regret having sex with someone else before their marriage? Or is saving yourself for marriage more like buying a car without test driving it first? I have a pretty strong opinion on this myself, but I'm not married, nor have I had sex, and I was curious if there is any truth to what people say about the sacredness of sex.

2006-10-13 14:26:36 · 41 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3

My 5th grade daughter has 5 of here friends over and it is very loud, should I go hide?

2006-10-13 14:25:20 · 25 answers · asked by Notta 2

I might have wasted money during our marriage,when we refinanced they were paid,now we're divorcing and its come up that the money was wasted and my spouse wants it to be judged against me in settlement,is it her burden of proof to show it was wasted or my burden to show where it went?I dont remember spending that money,does that matter?She's going to show bills with nothing to show for them and I dont know what to do.We live in Md. and were married 161/2 yrs.Whats going to effect this?

2006-10-13 14:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by just me!!! 1

2006-10-13 14:22:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm pretty happy in my 7yr marraige but I'm UNhappy with our sex life. I feel he's selfish and have tried to talk to him about giving me more attention, but he says he doesn't know what to do for me. I've given him some pointers, but they don't help too much. We've talked about it in the past (while fighting and also in a calm open discussion), but I'm still always left hanging. Sessions only last about 15min INCLUDING foreplay, and it's mostly ME helping HIM out. It's been so bad that one time, he finished w/o even entering me and I wasn't even wet yet; I actaully went crazy (sorry if it's too much info) I still want it, but I know going into it that I'm going to be unsatisfied, making me bitter. I get wet very easily just flirting with a guy in school, but it's real work to get myself ready when I'm with my husband. He works nights and we have children, so time is limited. Honestly, I just don't think he CARES about my satisfaction. I've had 1 orgasm in my life, while high

2006-10-13 14:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 14:19:50 · 20 answers · asked by dan m 2

2006-10-13 14:19:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean read between the lines to understand women.

2006-10-13 14:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by james t 1

Been trying to get child support for 12 years, he keeps changing jobs and his mother always says"He doesn't live here", everytime we track him down to serve papers. How can a man go through life and never use his s.s.#, address, name, or whatever else one needs to function? He has to be stopped! I tried just about everything you can think of. Does anyone know a secret to catch him?

2006-10-13 14:10:48 · 2 answers · asked by Christine M 1

My fiancé and I have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. He's still married but been seperated for 4 yrs. His wife has been committed to a state mental hospital and not able to sign divorce papers. We want to get married within the next yr or 2. What can we do?

2006-10-13 13:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy over two years ago. We were just friends for a while.Mostly because he had a girlfriend,which turned out to be a wife.Anyways he would complain about her all the time,and how bad things were and how he was gonna leave her etc.Anyways one day we just haning out and he kissed and i let him.Anyways i told him from the get go that i had no interest in being anyones mistress,but he insisted it wasn't like that and that he wanted to leave her and when he did we could be togther.Well it's been two years.And i've tried more than once to stop seeing him,i've said so many things to get him to just not talk to me ever again.I even told him he was bad in bed.But someway somehow we always end up back togther.Anyways it's clear he has no intention of leaving,and i can't be the other woman anymore,so what do i do?Should i just walk away and let him be or should i tell his wife what he did?

2006-10-13 13:48:12 · 26 answers · asked by flexduty 2

2006-10-13 13:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 13:41:17 · 19 answers · asked by Girlish 3

Basically my husband is great...in everything except being there for me emotionally. We seem to be roommates with fringe benefits this leaves me very lonely and depressed. What to do? I have bitched, cried, talked whatever and it's always "I know I'm not very open, I'll try to be better"

2006-10-13 13:40:32 · 5 answers · asked by Ray 1

2006-10-13 13:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, it looks like this weekend I'll be meeting my mom's first boyfriend since she and my dad got divorced. The divorce "process" started about a year ago and finished up only about 3 months ago.

I have to say, I really hate the way my mother has been dealing with this. She seems to be treating me like I'm too stupid to know that she's been seeing someone for about the past six months.

So, anyway, she's been planning to come visit my brother and me at college for a few weeks, and then she sends my brother a small little text message yesterday saying she is bringing her "friend" who "has been helping her out a lot since the divorce". It's worth noting that I had spoken to her just prior to that on the phone and she didn't bring it up.

I am feeling very uneasy and stressed out about this whole situation. I have so many mixed emotions, and I just don't know if I'm going to be able to handle being around this guy. Any advice to help ease my stress and frustration would be appreciated.

2006-10-13 13:33:20 · 14 answers · asked by chaser324 2

Ive been married for 9 years. I have a giving husband,a wonderful son,a beautiful home.Let's just say I work for fun & not cuz I have to. I should feel blessed & happy for having it all but I don't. I have never stopped thinking about my ex bf. We had a wonderful life when we were together. We went out for 4 years & the only reason why we broke it off was cuz of my parents. They did not like him. Now, it's been over 11 years since I last saw him and my parents finaly fessed up and told me that he tried to contact me several times after we broke up. They had tore all the letters he had written to me. They told me he had stopped by the house for months after I had moved out in search of me. They went as far as to tell him that I had moved out with a bf. Now, I want him even more. I find myself crying every day. My heart aches for him. Everytime I think of him, I get butterflies in my stomach. Shall I follow my heart & search for him? Shall I do nothing & stay with my family?

2006-10-13 13:30:44 · 25 answers · asked by girlhavefunalways 1

I'm a married mother of 3, w/1 step son. I have a great marriage, we've had problems in the past, but were good. Just wondering what else on a daily basis I can do for my husband to please him?

Please don't suggest BJ's, I'm a pro at that!! Other things, sexual and non-sexual, thanks fellas!

2006-10-13 13:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4

no need to share unless you want to.

2006-10-13 13:24:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 13:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ray 1

even though they have been through therapy and meds and are recovered for two years 3 small kids involved here one of the parents uses the others former mental problems as a means to gain an advantage thru angering the other

2006-10-13 13:14:28 · 4 answers · asked by Mark H 1

My fiance and I are planning on gatting married in canada. He is american (ca) and I am Canadian. We were also planning to get married in Oahu in Hawaii since we didnt think it was legally binding in the US. Is it plz provide some proof to back up your answer.

2006-10-13 13:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by surfer_grl_ca 4

Why are all the pretty girls so stupid. I get so excited when a pretty girl says yes. Then they start talking. It's not fair. Why can't I have the best of both worlds??????

2006-10-13 13:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

I asked prior one thing you WISH your wife/girlfriend would do and i got honest answers.thx .Now,why havent you told them what you wish they would do?Honestly

2006-10-13 13:01:43 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-10-13 12:59:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It can be anything and plz be honesT . Nothing too Nasty .But just think ANYTHING

2006-10-13 12:49:40 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3