2006-10-13 14:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by Mark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my marriage is going great just wanted same ideals to make it even beter thanks
2006-10-14 02:40:21 · update #1
you should start off by going t church. the bible is the hand book for marriage. second, ask her what she likes and doesnt like, and tell her yours. dont ever argue over money or sex. talk about it and work it out if you have a problem. treat your wife like a queen put no one before her except God. if you love her she will respect you. Hope this helps.
2006-10-13 14:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by ya girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set the tone of the marriage RIGHT NOW. It isn't fair to let her find out a year from now who you really are and how you expect her to treat you. Too many men slide into a marriage and let the woman start walking up and down his spineless back from the outset. This is ridiculous -- she deserves to now if you really hate shopping for drapes, that you really do not give one $hit about the color of the living room furniture or that you think a dozen scented candles in every room is silly. You can bet she won't hesitate to tell you to throw out that mounted deer head or pack up your Car & Driver magazines and put them in the garage without even asking you. Really learn about each other and be honest, no surprises and way less heartaches. She will appreciate your candor or be horrified by it. Either way, it needs to be done.
2006-10-13 15:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever jump to conclusions when she does something "wrong", try to see things from her prespective. Do some of her chores for her every now and then. If she's in a fight with someone, don't ever take the other person's side. Let her stay at home if she doesn't want to go to the office party, family gathering, etc. If she comes to you with a problem, don't tell her it isn't a problem - validate her feelings, and she might not even be looking for a solution, just someone to talk to. And if she kisses you deeply, don't always think she's looking for sex.
You sound like a sweetheart - I wish my husband asked the same thing! :)
2006-10-13 14:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark, you rock just for asking that question! Just listening to her is a start, pay attention to what she says. Compliment her! Buy her a rose and ask her out on a date, throw some romance back into the marriage. Romance is best!
2006-10-13 14:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by wibiggurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You win the prize for being a good husband. treat her with respect, love her show her how much you love her as well as her body. alot of times guys think they need to focus on her mind but some women lose out when it comes to there body.
2006-10-13 14:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know she's very special to you.
Be honest with her , give the love she needs.
Tell her every morning, every night , "I Love You."
Do and say little things to show your love.
Let her know how important to you she is in your life.
Show respect , Show Love.
2006-10-13 14:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh what a sweet question , just be yourself and be respectful , truthful in all you do and take your vows seriously. be friends not only husband an wife.
2006-10-13 14:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by kierstead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never take her for granted - let her know every day that you are with her because you love her.
2006-10-13 14:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question answers itself. Just the fact that you asked it shows you to be worthy of her. I hope she is worthy of you.
Best wishes
2006-10-13 14:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already are, just asking that question. just be yourself. and if you ever get divorced let me know.
2006-10-13 14:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by recyclingmamma@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋