no need to share unless you want to.
2006-10-13 13:24:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh please sistercoolbreeze. This isn't high school.
2006-10-13 13:30:32 · update #1
I think most of us are! There are some things you just want to keep to your self.
2006-10-13 13:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Karina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know anyone who doesn't stop to think about the ramifications of telling someone something, at least once in a while.
So, why wouldn't that be the same in a marriage? I have yet to get to know anyone who is (althought I have met people who say they are) an open book.
I think we all have regrets, and skeletons, in the closet. I choose to share neither, because it won't help anything. But, I am not out to actively create any, either. I never intend to do anything bad, but sometimes, bad happens. Sometimes sharing bad is a catharsis, and gains you sympathy, sometimes sharing bad only imparts the bad to others.
Your call, make it count.
2006-10-13 20:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by jumping_in_101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not keeping secrets from my spouse at this time, although i had some bad things happening to me for al ong tim that i kept from everyone and i finlaly told himbut no one else, sometimes i wish i wouldnt hae cause i think it really bothers him but it was nothing i did something that has been happening to me, but otherwise you should never keep secrets from the one you love exspecially your spouse
2006-10-13 20:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulmommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm keeping a secret from someone ele's spouse,but i'm thinking of telling,cause he's an *** and he totally lied to me.
2006-10-13 20:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by flexduty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not anything serious, only stupid stuff like dreaming about my exboyfriends alot. Other than that, i don't keep secrets from my husband, only he does with me.
2006-10-13 20:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Girlish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely..Huge secrets.Would rock his world if he ever found out..I will never tell though..my lips are sealed.
2006-10-14 15:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by ddko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he knows everything. Good and bad. Past and present.
2006-10-14 06:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in honesty, just not brutal honesty. Some things are best left buried.
2006-10-13 20:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Hell yeah! ANd I'm sure he is too!
2006-10-13 20:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ray 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yup a big one - he'll never know...
2006-10-13 21:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by actresscye 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋