Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2006

My brother and his wife have been married for almost 3 years. They dated about 2 months before marrying and getting pregnant. They now have two children. My brother does everything for her. He works a full time job (so that she can stay home and her mother can live with them), takes care of all the housework and takes care of the children. He takes care of the yardwork and makes sure the bills are paid and on top of all, rubs her feet on a regular basis. He has recently brought up to her that he wants to have sex as much as they did when they first met. She came back and said that she would do that if he would romance her more. He doesn't know what more he can do for her as money is tight for them as he lets her spend at will. He's also pushed to the limit for time as he does everything for her. They have talked about the division of work, but she only does a little for a few days and then goes back to doing nothing. What do I tell him? Romance her more or put his foot down?

2006-10-13 11:07:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does he have to divorce her or something? He mentioned something about this, and I was just wondering. Or does he just have to bring her death certificate when we go to get our license? Does he have to do that even? Just wondering.

2006-10-13 11:02:19 · 14 answers · asked by benjis.girl 3

2006-10-13 10:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by nobellybutton 1

2006-10-13 10:54:15 · 35 answers · asked by umair 1

Mine lasted 7 years (not the itch though) through death. All these divorces make me feel how unfair it is really... I wanted mine to last forever.

2006-10-13 10:48:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married couple working on hier marriage after it was discoved that the wife was cheating. Since then she has said hat she wants to work on the marriage. Here goes the question:

When an individual tells you that they love you, but they are not in love with you. Can he marriage work out in time. I believe that you cannot learn to love someone if you can make that statement. What do you think. Should I stay and see if it works out or fly. Thanks....

2006-10-13 10:47:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 10:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by ump2221 1

2006-10-13 10:39:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

plllllz tell me im trying to win an argument with someone?????

2006-10-13 10:36:21 · 13 answers · asked by vballplayer 1

2006-10-13 10:29:24 · 12 answers · asked by knitch 1

2006-10-13 10:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 10:24:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 10:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by randy g 1

2006-10-13 10:15:32 · 26 answers · asked by Mike R 1

Guys, when you start seeing a girl, would you rather do the pursuing?

2006-10-13 10:13:16 · 29 answers · asked by babyred 2

she says she will but she won't.

2006-10-13 10:09:51 · 23 answers · asked by j_whitekiller 1

Since judge ordered that he stay with his father 2 weeks a month has lost good student discount on insurance, been in trouble, sneeked out of the house and didn't come home. Grades keep falling. Always an honor student and never got in trouble before when he only went every other weekend. Seems to be chomping at the bit to move out as soon as he turns 18. Should we bribe him with money or car to stay in school? Father never asks to see grades, and never checks for homework. Will he quit school with only 2 months to go? We would like him to stay with us (Mom and Stepdad) and get back on track. Father doesn't seem to be concerned very much.

2006-10-13 10:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by TK 2

2006-10-13 10:06:11 · 36 answers · asked by hdd 1

do You thing kissing (just kissing) is cheating,I'm taking a poll to show my husband. thanks

2006-10-13 10:04:01 · 33 answers · asked by noort615 1

2006-10-13 10:03:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do women wear thongs for comfort or fashon and what material is best? Also what is the difference between v-string and thong?

2006-10-13 10:02:17 · 16 answers · asked by kb_sn05 1

This is not happening to me, as previously thought by other answers, this is in response to several questions and answers I have seen in this forum. I have reworded the question as there was some confusion. Politeness is appreciated.

2006-10-13 09:58:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 09:55:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

mostly guys not thinking about it, they are more selfish on thier needs

2006-10-13 09:55:10 · 17 answers · asked by ajish vadama 1

Like you seem them a few years later down the road with a bunch of kids, and the husband's walking in front of the wife, and they look so miserable? Why is that? How can you prevent it? Why can't people always stay happy like they used to be? Is life just cruel? :(

2006-10-13 09:46:36 · 22 answers · asked by Justina 3

2006-10-13 09:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are doing well in marriage exept that he has issues with expressing his emotions... We love being with eachother and he will tell me he loves me but the family he came from NEVER shared feelings. If something needed to be said they would write a letter or dismiss it. As a result he sometimes doesn't even know what he's feeling. Sometimes this causes issues because he does't know how to say when something is wrong or he has a problem.

Neither of us have insurance. Anyone have any ideas/tips or know of someplace in Orlando we could look in to for help?

2006-10-13 09:40:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He began to act strange after 9 years of marriage. His constant complaints about me being too fat, my hair isn't long enough. I don't clean the house enough. No matter what, I wasn't good enough. Over the last three months -- he has left hotel receipts in our home (plan view); stayed out all night and has been seen by my brother and his wife with a younger woman having dinner. By the way, he hasn't been owning up to his monetary responsibilities by paying his portion of the bills around the house (light/gas; telephone; car insurance; car payment, etc.) Is this a phase? Or should I just give up -- there is our 12 year old son who is also in the middle of all this mess!

2006-10-13 09:39:00 · 34 answers · asked by Sistah 1

Cheating is much deeper than the act. It is also through thought. Not to mention most women I know are hurt when their man looks at another women they think are sexy. I've heard it all. Like"Honey if men didn't look at women we'd be gay." Ridiculous, if it hurts your woman, why do you do it?

2006-10-13 09:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told him he should inform his wife; but he says it's history... should I tell her? and if i should how should i do it... I think he will be very pi$$ed at me....

2006-10-13 09:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by klontinmybroek 1