she says she will but she won't.
2006-10-13 10:09:51 · 23 answers · asked by j_whitekiller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dude, you knew who she was when you married her. Right now you sound like one of those spouse who got married thinking they would change the person they loved into who they wanted by marrying them.
2006-10-13 10:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is she? that makes a big differance....if she is under 25 give her some time to get it worked out of her system, she is young still.
Do you go with her some times when she goes out? also start taking a interest in the things she likes to do, go out with her, and enjoy the night life with her. This will make her feel loved and realize after a while that she already has a great guy at home and will not want to go out as much. Plus you might enjoy yourself too.
If this doesn't work, then it's time to set up some party guidelines.
As in, she can go out, but it would mean a lot to you if she would limit the amount of time she goes out, and limit the places she goes to. Offer that if she does this, you will do something for her as well. It opens up more honest conversation about how you feel about her partying ways.
2006-10-13 10:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will just have to let her stop on her own time. U can't rush anyone to just stop a habit, especially if she was a chronic party goer before u were married. Eventually, she'll get tired of it.
2006-10-13 10:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was a partiying when you met her it is no fair for you to try to stop her now.
If she just started partying, then you may be able to compromise with her. Maybe she could go out with her friends occasionally or you go with her occasionally. Or if that is not acceptable you may have to do some soul searching as to whether the relationship is worth continuing.
2006-10-13 10:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she a partier when you married her? People always say don't go into a marriage expecting the partner to change. If it becomes unbearable sit down and talk to her about how much it bothers you.
2006-10-13 10:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW,,, it depends on her age, how long you've been married are there children involved??? I went through it when I was about 35, decided I didn't want to be married, didn't want to be a mom wanted my freedom,,,, it lasted only a short time but my husband never asked me to stop. If you've asked her to stop she should listen to you before its too late. don't put up with it for long,
2006-10-13 10:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person. I wouldn't push her to stop because if you do it may cause a problem and she will keep on partying just to piss you off.
2006-10-13 10:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy20us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
habits are hard to break, it might take a while but it will be worth the wait.
2006-10-13 10:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her till yesterday
2006-10-13 11:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably a while. If she was a partyer when you married her it's gonna be a while before she really wants to stop. Good luck with that.
2006-10-13 10:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋