Would you stay with some one out of convenience ? i mean after so long that is all you know?

Answer 1

yes.
that is the most honest I have been for a long time.

Answer 2

I was doing just what you are now. I was married and had a young child and could not imagine doing it on my own. She is the product of our marriage and was always taught to stay married for the children. It took me two more yrs. of being miserable and wanting out to finally make the move. I knew my child could sense the unhappiness in the house and wanted her to have more than just a ok mom. My ex makes REALLY good money and I knew that I could not give her the lifestyle we had together alone. I had a long talk with my ex and we both agreed that we deserved more from a relationship and that we should seperate. We have been divorced now for over a year and are still the best of friends. We get along great now apart and my daughter has 2 happy parents instead of parents that settled for an unfulling relationship.

I am so glad I made this move for a have a relationship now with a man that is truely my soul mate and is wonderful with my daughter. You truely deserve to have a happy and meaningful relationship in your life. Making that first move is scary as hell....trust me I know...but I am glad for the courage to be able to move forward.

Good luck to you in your decisions, I know how hard they are to make.

Answer 3

No. My friend did that because she didn't want to move back home. A few months later she announced she was pregnant and they were getting married. Now six years and two kids later, they are going through a divorce. She doesn't regret her kids. They are wonderful. But she wishes she's not have stayed with him just because. She wasted alot of years on a man that never loved her as much as she loved him, and sadly told her as much. So leave now, before a pregnancy happens and you stay out of convenience and guilt.

Answer 4

It would really depend on my age at the time. If I were a young girl and married for a short or medium length of time, perhaps I would move on, but if I were older and set financially, I would most likely stay put because things would be much worse for you going into the world at an older age. I think everyone is entitled to happiness, and should search this out, but sometimes you will bring more misery upon yourself going it alone.

Answer 5

No-No-No! In the end someone will get hurt. If you no longer love the person, you get out of the relationship. Make sure that the above it true and you're simply not in a rut. Talk things over with the other person involved, see how they feel. And remember, NEVER say "I love you" if you don't really mean it. That's the worst lie anyone could ever say.

Answer 6

If you made a vow to another person you should honor your vows, but in the meantime, work on your relationship convenience does not make for a happy home.

Answer 7

I have...i've been married for 20 yrs and it has been HORRIBLE the ride...but i know nothing better, my parents are dead and my siblings are all over, and who wants to intrude in someone elses life..no one...so one stays, till one day a light shines and you go to it. Im getting my degree finishing up and soon, i will be someone and take off and start all over again, and i wont have to depend on him. Just keep looking for the light to shine

Answer 8

No, never again! Tried it for 11 miserable years. I felt old, tired and hopeless. It was scary to go out on my own with 2 kids. But I'm so happy that I did!

Answer 9

I would like to say never but if my husband and I fell out of love as the years progressed I honestly couldn't say. I love him so much that I might stick around out of the memory of our love or in hopes that it would come back.

Answer 10

Depends..