2006-10-13 02:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has this mental image of what you looked like in high school and remembers taking your cherry way back when...but when he see's you now, he's going to have that look on his face of disappointment....just like on Christmas when you came down, expecting Santa to have come and found nothing under the tree...
2006-10-13 02:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen speaking from experience hind sight is always 20/20 in the rear view mirror. What i'm saying is that you 2 broke up 20 + yrs ago for some reason. after that time you each married and started a new life with someone else. it would be a bad idea to see each other after that 20 yr break, unless you plan on it being a couples thing where each of you bring there spouses. however i will tell you from experience that this is also very akward. I would honestly suggest that you leave the past in the past. and move forward.
"You don't need to worry about where your going, as long as you know where you been" best of luck to you
2006-10-13 03:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, the both of you have reached a point in your married lives that you either feel it is dull or not what you thought it should be. Your ex brings back that spark and you bring that spark back to him as well. You need to be very careful though, because chances are the two of you are combustible and all it will take is a spark and then there is an explosion. Stay away from each other, protect your marriages, protect your families and just keep what ever memories you have. If the two of you were single that would be different, but you are not. If it is possible, you should not even talk to him or see him at all...
2006-10-13 02:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i beleive we are all curious at one time re. are exs how they turned out what they are doing now and what has changed in there lives but the key word here is ex at one point in your life you made him your ex for a reason people do change but there souls always stay the same so im sure if its a casual thing like a hi and bye situation just to see what the other looks like is fine but to meet with this person probably would not be good if your intentions are not pure and think of it this way would you want your husband to sneak behind your back and go see one of his exs im sure you wouldent so if your husband is ok with it then i guess its allright
2006-10-13 02:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer that once you love someone it never completely goes away, even though you love lots more people in your life.
So is it idle curiosity about your ex or are you dissatisfied with your marriage and hope to rekindle something?
Are you happy to tell your husband that you'd like to meet up with this man? If not, then think very carefully why not and what could be the consequences of meeting up in secret. Trust, once lost, is very hard to get back.
Be careful
2006-10-13 02:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dancemomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always an attachment once you have given part of your life to someone. Unless they caused you great pain. And one of the good things about being human is that we forget the bad things after a while and only remember the good times.
2006-10-13 03:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about your wants? You HAVE to honor the vows you made to your husband. Should have, could haves doesn't matter now. The fact of the matter is that you put yourself in a lifelong commitment to your husband and now you have to do the right thing.
2006-10-13 02:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see if what you had was still there. That and to see what each other look like. Did either of you age gracefully? That and it is a connection to your past.
2006-10-13 02:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want it one last time and maybe you will feel content...but you probably wont. Evaluate your love life with your husband now..remember why this guy is your EX....and ask yourself if it's worth it.
2006-10-13 02:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time makes you forget the real reason you didnt marry him and you broke up in the first place. you only remember the good things.
2006-10-13 02:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by donyafs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋