This is a continuation to a question I just asked. My wife celebrated here birthday two days ago. I sent her some roses to her job which she did get. The then is she has yet to say thank you. I called to confirm that the flowers were delivered to her job and she signed for them. She found the time to text message me on Tuesday to let me know that her mother would pick her up from work on Wednesday (her birthday). When she came on that night she still did not say thank. When I got up Thursday morning the roses were sitting on the kitche table and she did not even say thank you that morning nor yesterday afternoon. I see this a sign of being totally ungreatful. Should I just leave the matter alone, because it's obvious she doesn't appreciate the flowers and the other gifts that I gave her or should I voice my how hurt I am ove the matter.
2006-10-13 03:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by kingjames1906 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you do deserve a thank you ,but maybe just maybe she was looking for you to do something else besides the flowers.
2006-10-13 04:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately say something because as far as I am, concerned she is being a selfish b----. I love it when my husband brings me or sends me flowers. I never forget to say thank you because that is the way I would want to be treated. But then again maybe she expected the flowers and wanted you to do something different and she is mad because you did'nt. But still she should have at least said thank you. That is just rude. She is being rude ignore her . Maybe she wants you to say something who knows . She sounds like she can be complicated. Good Luck and God Bless/.
2006-10-13 10:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder also if she was truly with her mother on her birthday. Why wasn't she with you? Sounds like she is mad at you and I am not saying that your wife is having an affair but sometimes when someone is having an affair they get "mad" at their spouse and act as if the spouse has done something wrong. I would confront her on it. Good luck to you.
2006-10-13 10:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lorrie W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bring it up that you are hurt for not being acknowledged. Sometimes women like men can get lost in the day and simply forget to be considerate. Definitely say something to her. it might not be what you're thinking.
2006-10-13 10:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by MCS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That is a tough one. Your right she does seem ungrateful. I would keep to myself and ignore the selfish...wife...next birthday or holiday see that she gets nothing, I'm sure she will find time to acknowledge that!!!!
By the way it was very sweet of you to send your wife roses at work, on behalf of all of us appreciative women.... Thank you honey!!!
2006-10-13 10:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by midlifemommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the tops of the roses and see what she says then!!!! Does she ever say thank you? Or was she expecting someting more thoughtful and personal than flowers?
2006-10-13 10:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sign the card? If you didn't maybe she isn't really sure if you got them for her. Either if I was her I would talk to my husband about it. Why is it that she went with her mother on her birthday, you are her husband you should have been there with them. My first instinct would be that she was not with her mother,
2006-10-13 10:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your wife but if I did that it would be for a reason...I think she's mad at you for something and she's making a point. Whats the rest of the story?
2006-10-13 10:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she liked the flowers ,don't get upset
2006-10-13 10:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋