we are thinking about getting back together
2006-10-13 08:08:10 · 16 answers · asked by lovenest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people on here aren't really doing all of their Bible research. It's not a sin to divorce if your spouse cheated on you. Also, if your spouse leaves you, and you did not want the divorce, it is still not a sin, and in either case you are free to remarry. Now since you are talking about getting back together with the same man, I would think that since you are legally divorced already it would be a sin to sleep with him even though he used to be your husband until you are once again married. Probably better to work out your problems first before hopping back in bed anyway. Also, I am assuming you are a Christian, so if your spouse is not a Christian then there is the whole unequally yoked issue. Don't take the "worlds" advice though, get off of yahoo! answers and talk to a pastor, or at least hit your local Christian bookstore where you will find lots of books on the subject to help you make the right decision...and last but not least pray, God wants you to ask for His direction first, not last.
2006-10-13 09:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, its a sin to be divorced, and remarry. If you marry someone who is divorced, you are both committing adultery. It's in the Bible- Matthew something. I thinks it's sweet y'all are thinking about getting back together. You won't be sinning!
2006-10-13 08:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex, according to the church, is always a sin. But if you are thinking about getting together, shouldn't you think about why you split up in the first place? Did you try everything then to make it work and it didn't? Why do you think it would work now? I think in the end, someone is going to be hurt again.
2006-10-13 08:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a "sin" but if you will look at your divorce papers it says something about that subject in there.
2006-10-13 21:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on your religion. I am a Catholic. The Catholic church does not recognize divorce, so in their eyes you are still married. However, you would be just getting off on a technicality (no pun intended).
Do what you think is right.
2006-10-13 08:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married in the Catholic Church and haven't paid $5,000.00 to get it annulled then no.
If you didn't get married in the Catholic Church in the first place then it was a sin when you were married and it still is now.
Everyone else is cool with it. I already asked.
2006-10-13 08:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to my knowledge but you may wish to rethink this since you left him before. Are the reasons you divorced still prevalent?
2006-10-13 08:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly don't think so. If you can rekindle your love, what could be better?
Of course, I'm not a Christian (I assume from the term "sin" that you are, forgive me if I assumed incorrectly), so I'm not an ideal source.
2006-10-13 08:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by DonalGram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are asking if it is a sin, then somewhere you already know or feel that it could be wrong. I suggest you do nothing you regret,
2006-10-13 08:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to the bible even though you are divorced you are still one, and if there is a chance for reconciliation then you should do it.
2006-10-13 08:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by jeleaya82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋