my girlfriend and i just broke up, before thebrake up she was not as affectionate as she was in the beggining and now that we are split she is so amazing... a keep trying to sleep in the spare bedroom but she always say "oh thought you would want to sleep with me?" i'm moving out and i just want to try and make this not hurt so much for myself ... what are your thoughts
2006-10-13 06:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by goretti c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is doing this b/c she knows your done with her and if she act's like she was suppost to u might change ur mind and stay dont stay b/c she will go back to doing it to u again im woman trust me i know how we act
2006-10-13 06:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes women do not realize how bad things were until its too late like when he cheats or just leave. they always want to make it better but we do not know how to listen we talk talk talk but never really listen to the clues that we are doing something wrong. she really loves you but she has a hard time changing and listening
2006-10-13 13:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always going to hurt but there's a few things you can do to make it better quicker by talking with friends and family.keeping your mind busy and not trying to think about her so much.hurting is part of life..good luck.
2006-10-13 13:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She broke up with me"
and now she is affectionate.
Maybe she likes the chase and this were getting too boring.
This could of been her stupid way to spice things up.
Talk to her and tell her you like what she is doing now and then ask why she didn't do it before.
Plain and simple talk to her not us.
2006-10-13 14:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, just tell her that you would rather not because it hurts too much, but in a break-up, someone is always going to get hurt.
2006-10-13 13:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes her space... I think you two prob aren't ready to live together... or shes' not ready... I would def talk to her about it... ask her if thats the case... she may just be stringing you along also...
2006-10-13 13:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by SweetOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋