(A guy you happen to be friends with)
Whats your take on this? Affair and betrayal?? What???
2006-10-13 07:44:08 · 42 answers · asked by libby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, snog was a bad use of words. 'Make out' is probably better.....
2006-10-13 07:52:09 · update #1
Why are there so may people assuming I have done what I asked in the question??
Get a grip people!! -Assumption!!!
2006-10-13 22:15:52 · update #2
Definitely cheating. No other answer to it. And if you're doing that, then you need to decide if you should really be getting married.
2006-10-13 07:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi bad very bad. You better hopr he doesnt find out or you will be out the door and he will probabley kill your friend. Why did you marry you husband if you want to kiss other guys. Its not an affair until you keep seeing the person or sleep with him, its cheating and betrayal, and you should be ashamed yourself and i hope you feel bad and will never do it again. If he did it to you how would you feel. But if you love your hubby any more then maybe you should have a divorce as it isnt fair on him. When you say snog another guy you obviously want more from him.
2006-10-13 07:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's betrayal - unless your partner has told you to do it, and that it's fine.
If it's a one-off, that doesn't necessarily make it an affair, but then where do you draw the line.
I guess the easiest way to decide if it's betrayal or an affair is to ask yourself "What whould my partner say if they knew?"
How would you feel if they kissed another girl, one that they knew - a former girlfriend perhaps? Would you be happy about it? Would you think they were having an affair?
Only you can answer this in your situation - everyone else will just be giving you their take on it, but they aren't in your relationship...
2006-10-13 07:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by sean6045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what's YOUR take on it if your husband were to snog another girl (a friend of his)? Would you call it an affair, betrayal or what?
OR, would you just be okay with it?
2006-10-13 07:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if you are married you shouldnt even be thinking about all of this. You should have thought about that when you took your vales! Does that not mean anything to you? Its amazing how you can just marry someone and then think about an affair? What if he did that to you, and you were so in love with him and trusted him with your life. Then you find out he had an affair? Hmmm... Maybe you should think things through before you go and do something stupid like that. What goes around comes around.
2006-10-13 07:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gal friend:
If your man is nasty to you then if ok if u snag, snog and snig!
Its your own life! and how you choose to live it, its only you thats gotta bear the consequences. If your heart says both affair and bertrayal then thats it! Live your life, if you dont love ur hubby and craves excitement its better you leave him and seek what you want elsewhere, that way you will save urself from being cursed by a broken heart!
Good luck in whatever you do!
Love SANAM
2006-10-13 07:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh it's just a snog - don't worry about it. It happened and it's over. If you love hubby then just forget it. You are human and we all make mistakes. i hope your mistake was enjoyable!! But best to try to avoid too much snogging with others in future!!!
2006-10-13 09:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how you feel about the snog. but don't go beating yourself about it too much. But I think you need to have a good look at your relationship and if everything is ok with that.
2006-10-13 07:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that it was cheating as such. You can get drunk or just feel like kissing someone. It doesn't mean that you are going to sleep with them. I have no secrets from my wife and neither of us have ever done that but if i did or she did then we'd be more angry if we didn't tell each other and talk about why it happened. Sometimes these things just happen.
2006-10-13 07:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't call it an affair but yes,of course it is a betrayal,how would you feel if your husband snogged another woman?
2006-10-13 07:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by ♥cozicat♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your married and 'snog' (British eh? Do you mean have sex with, make love to, screw, ****?) then it is called an Affair. You can also add many other names to it, such as Betrayal, cheating, unfaithful, whatever else comes to your mind too.
2006-10-13 07:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋