2006-10-13 06:50:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. Its not acceptable. sounds at best dicey - perhaps even dangerous. You don't wan tot be drawn into it, or marry a bloke like that and be tied to him until you are old. ditch and move on.
2006-10-13 06:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never. My husband and I tend to talk about everything - all the boring little details of our day are certainly among our conversation topcs... and where/with whom we're going out would always be discussed. It's just part of our routine, I guess.
If you're having trouble with a partner NOT wanting to tell you these things, then I would say it COULD be a bad sign. If it's an ongoing, consistent issue, then I would be concerned. Talk to your partner about it, and let them know how you feel. If it's a brand new issue, then relax a bit - maybe your partner is simply planning some sort of surprise for you. :)
2006-10-13 06:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, my fiance never goes anywhere without telling me first, and he always has his phone with him so I can reach him if I need to. I always know where he is (work, friends house, train club, on his way home from work, etc). It is NOT acceptable to me, and to many others, not to know where your partner is. That is disrespectful if your partner doesn't let you know where he or she is. My fiance trusts me not to have to know where I am during the day, where I am going shopping after payday, etc. But, I do tell him where I went anyway--out of respect to him, and because he is so respectful to me and lets me know everywhere he goes/is at. I would NEVER be in a relationship where my partner didn't tell me where he is at or going to. I demand respect and I give it as well.
2006-10-13 07:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He use to........ then i dumped him. I don't need that kind of stress, and life is tooooooooooo short for that crap. I was always conciderate to him and his feelings, I always told him where I was going, what I was doing , and who i was with so that he wouldn't worry, if he needed me he knew where to find me and he never had to wonder if i was cheating, because I was always open with him. HE NEVER gave me the same....... and it drove me NUTS. YOU treat people and give people the respect and concideration that you wish to recieve in return. HE NEVER did, and I chalked that up to him being a sneaky person with crap to hide and lies to be told, and he told MANY lies, i don't need those games, I don't have the time for those games and I am NOT putting up with that 5 yr old childs play.......... I want a REAL man if they exist..... and I don't want that for a *make believe* person in my life. I am sooooo sorry I ranted like this ........... my ex really ticked me off and obviously it still does. Well, Thats what I did and how I felt when I had a NO GOOD partner like that.......... blessed be.
2006-10-13 07:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Skycat:
This question I myself wanna ask someone and I ma glad you did!
Let me say that my partner used to tell me everything he did and where he went, he would even call if he was late or with the boys. But since last year he stopped calling stopped telling me where he is going and I can't even ask, he would get defensive!
So then I resolved to do the same as he is doing, at first he acted like " the man of the house" then gradually he realised what he was doing and now jealously and maybe the thought of me doing what he is doing to me finally hit home!
Listen girlfriend, it takes two to tango and if he is treating you shabby, return the favour and if he loves you he would stop being so secretive!
Godd luck, its your live, you have one live to live, live it safe and beaware of your surroundings!
Love SANAM
2006-10-13 07:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex-partner used to do it all the time. It was a real problem if he found out I did anything without his permission. It was called domination he loved it i couldn't/ I found out the first time that he gave me a std that he was cheating on me. It got so sometimes i wouldn't see him for weeks at a time. It doesn't sound like a secure match to me.
2006-10-13 07:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by George M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-10-13 06:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No never,and i always tell him where im going,you need to know these things.
What if something happened to him while he was out and about?
Why is he being so secretive,have you asked him ,you dont seem to be communicating with each other very well.
2006-10-13 07:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pat R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...we always tell each other where we are going and what we are doing...the flip side is that we both know the other wont have a cow about anything we tell each other......if you want him to be open and honest you have to be accepting of what he says.
2006-10-13 06:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does --I may not always be available to tell and besides we trust each other--without trust and communication there is no sense in being together.
2006-10-13 07:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋