I'm thinking what's stopping him from treating me like he treats her? I mean he lied to me about her having a boyfriend and being separated from him I think. He tells me that he loves me and he's with me almost every night but I can't get over the fact that he lied about being married. Do you think he'll end up leaving her for good? I really care about him and would want to be with him if he was divorced. But then I'd hate for him to just drop me like it seems like he did to her. Please help if you're married or single thanks
2006-10-13 19:51:05 · 16 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Walk away now. He is a liar and a cheat and you deserve better than that. Do you really want a relationship that started on those kinds of terms?
2006-10-13 19:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Amelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he lied in the first place that is a clear indication that he is only with you for the sex. If he treats her wife better, that means that he loves her, and he wants to be with her. End this relationship right now. Always remember karma is a *****. Whatever you are doing will come back to you. Find someone better who dedicates all of their time to you, not their leftovers like this guy. You wouln't like for their marriage to end because of you would you? If there are kids involve take them into consideration, and the impact a divorce will have to those children. Remember the saying once a cheater, always a cheater. If he divorces, and lives with you, he will eventually do the same thing to you.
2006-10-14 07:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by melivaga2004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this guy is lying through his thingy...I just left my lover who keeps telling me he is not getting on with his wife, and regrets marrying her..blah, blah blah but through all these 10 months,all he did was talk but not take any action in leaving her to be with me although he keeps saying he wants me. Yeah, right! All he wants is some sexual loving. So, if i were you, take the advice of a married woman played out by another married man, kick his sorry **&% out! and treat yourself to a nice expensive holiday to meet someone new..
2006-10-13 23:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by angelheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? If he told you he was still married would it make a difference? If he loves you he would tell you the truth. He is with you every night so that is a good thing but can you trust him? Only time will tell.
2006-10-13 20:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by fuck off 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only seperated he hasn't truly "dropped" his wife, he is still legally married and there is nothing that says he can't go back to his wife after his "fling" with you. That's why a single woman shouldn't get involved with a man who is only seperated. There is always that chance he will go back to the wife...and then to it is rare that a man, when he finally is divorced, will stay with the woman he was using while he was separated. They usually dump her as well.
2006-10-13 19:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to leave him be.. this happened to me not too long ago. Robert told me he wasn't married and never been married and didn't have children. After a month or so of seeing him we finally slept togather... I thought I was totally in love.. well I was in love. Then the day came that my phone rang and it was a women asking me why my number was on her husbands cellphone.. I asked her who her husband was and she said Robert... I freaked of course and told her everything she wanted to know.But me being stupid let him lead me to believe that he was leaving her and that he loved me and wanted to be with me and that they were seperated and she was upset because of that. I even went as far as accepting his marriage proposal just to find out that they hadn't seperated... that he never intended on leaving her... that he was just using me. Don't continue the relationship until you see the divorce papers. Thats my advice.
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2006-10-13 20:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by sexymama2420052000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself what type of morals does this guy have to be cheating with you on his wife. i found out that my husband had been cheating with a co-worker for 8 months while i was working 2 jobs and supporting him through school. he was telling her i was too busy or too tired for him, that we never had sex, he told me that he could not stand here, that if i ever saw her i would understand why he could never be attracted to her, that she was just his boss and he had to be nice to her, that they were just friends, blah, blah blah...the assshole was screwing the *****, then coming home and screwing me....he didnt have the guts to tell me about her because he knew i would through his lousy *** out which i did when i found out and told him to go ahead and be with her, but he got down on his hands and knees and begged me to keep him and that he was sorry she meant nothing to him, then told her some lame BS....what a loser....leave him and find someone who can treat you like a lady. bye the way if his name is max get the hell away from him as fast as you can....
2006-10-13 21:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are worth more than this.
If this guy cheats with you he will cheat on you!
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
He is a lyer and a cheat.
Why on earth would you ever ever ever consider keeping this man in your life??
Be strong. You deserve an honest good man.
2006-10-13 20:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to assert it, in spite of the undeniable fact that it does not sound like it according to what you suggested. She truly suggested you have been in contrast to a number of different adult men once you had intercourse??? Being a woman myself, i might think of that having already been sexually lively earlier she married coupled with waiting to have intercourse with you till once you married, any intercourse might have been great. additionally, for many women human beings i comprehend, intercourse is approximately plenty greater desirable than intercourse, that's approximately thoughts besides and if she enjoyed you, it form of feels to me she might have had to paintings on that branch with you. you're prepared to forgive her in spite of the undeniable fact that it sounds like she basically needs out. i'm sorry as that must be devastating.
2016-12-26 18:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 50. I have had relationships with f....like him that said they would leave their wives....They don't. He is with you because she kicked him out and he needs a place to sleep. If he cheated on her, he will cheat on you....I know from experience. Get rid of the user, mucher!
2006-10-13 20:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋