Mid thirties, know it's the best thing, understand the grief issue. Besides jumping into bed with someone else, and besides spending several hundred dollars at the mall, what is a good way to temporarily (no drugs or alcohol) to relieve this pain?
2006-10-13 20:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by bleunumen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes
2006-10-13 20:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Audra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups always affects a persons thoughts. Why not take up a hobby to occupy your time for a bit, something you enjoy doing besides shopping. Also spending time with friends works also. Been there done that, friends always are good to be around. Wish you the best.
2006-10-13 20:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by show_em_your_badge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieving is a long and hurtful process. It took me 7 months of hurting after our split. Talking to friends and family helped a lot but the worst part is when you are alone and keep thinking about him/her. I have not jumped into bed with anyone else. The hurt has now gone and there is no temporary relief and alcohol will certainly not help, it only makes you worse.
2006-10-13 20:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by fuck off 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all knowing that there will be an ending to the pain helps. praying that you can endure through the healing stages, occupy your mind with future endeavers, not a partner cause that will only lead to rebound and you hurt not just you but that person. butg get a hobby. go take a course in school go out with your friends and bowl. do different things you didnt do with your mate.
2006-10-13 20:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, realize it's not the end of the world and move forward to make yourself a stronger and better person.
2006-10-13 20:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
becouse you got usta being around that person and developed feelings and trust around them you have memories and the best way i deal with it is be around my friends and just hang out or listion to music even if its sad cry untill you get mad eventually you will be so mad that it ended you wont be sad anymore and you will eventually move on
2006-10-13 20:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about spending time with good, solid friends and loved ones in whose company you can feel safe and loved?
2006-10-13 20:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have the girls come over for a girls night out. I love hanging out with the girls and having girl talk, its like it soo much fun that my stress lowers
2006-10-13 20:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋