hi, i am a 27 yr old married man from past few months.My wife is 24 yrs old.I am very lucky to get her as my wife.She is a nice girl and we respect eachother a lot.i love her a lot and i know that she too loves me.But my problem is she is too shy in bed and does not co-operate me to fulfill my sexual desires.She feels very uncomfortable when i kiss her and i find her shivering when i hug her and try to make love to her . She does not complain or tells anything about her problem but somehow i want her to make her feel happy and comfortable with me in bed.I am really worried about how can i make her ready so that i can enter her.pls help me
2006-10-13 22:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
has she been abused ever before ? there may be an undlying problem that you may not know about.
2006-10-13 22:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by locowherto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta talk to her man, it's possible like that one dude said that she may have some kind of tramatic past, or she's just afraid of some kind of pain. Is she a virgin? Stuff like that takes time, but it also takes open communication, tell what you want and what you need to do to make her feel comfortable, or take things EXTRA slow for her, make HER want it more than you do....stuff like foreplay, teases, whatever turns her on...but main thing is you gotta express your feelings and you gotta get her to open up too...otherwise that can lead to problems if you're seriously eager for physical intimacy.
2006-10-13 22:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you drink have a few drinks and tell her you really want to fulfil her desires and u dont care about your own and u will do anything to make her feel comfortable. try giving her a really long massage for an hour or longer and then try entering her.
2006-10-13 22:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have u ever make her drunk b4 u f*uck her?Try it.After she drunk u take off her clot slow-slow n lick her p*ussy softly.Take your time to lick her p*ussy.Not to kiss her as she don't like to kiss.Lick her until she feel fresh n moaning than u f*uck her with your c*ock.ln this moment u will know how frush she was n how much u enjoy your sex.Hope this can help u my friends.Have a lovely sex tonight.
2006-10-14 01:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said men only
but try forplay turn the lights off
wisper in her ear that you love her and you want to take you time and please her if she is not comfortable with something stop
tlk about it with her and tell her that it is ok she might be afarid of doing something wrong but try not to pressure her
me and my boy friend talk about every thing and watch each others body language to see if they like it or not and after we tell eachother what we like and did not like
i hope this helps
2006-10-13 23:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by GINA D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
know what? you asking the wrong population. it should have been" women only". anyway listen. your problem is no problem. this might sound silly to you going by the person you sound like.but thats the truth. she's very normal dont force anything take time to understand her.
2006-10-13 22:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by fleur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must be a virgin. as a young couple, start with foreplay - caressing her body (touching all parts), after much, she will be free and comfortable with you. Good luck.
2006-10-13 22:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have misinterpreted what is happening to her. Want to know more?
2006-10-14 02:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by seabug_46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First!!! Check VERY closely to be sure that SHE is a SHE and NOT a HE.!! THEN take her to a Psycologist.. Be sure to remember to PRAY first..
2006-10-13 23:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Robert D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋