Why women choose those men ?

Question

Businessmen chasing the money all the time and treating their wife like a deal they made and now they got her at home waiting for him whenever he wants to come and rest.

Those wives keep complaining about loneliness and maybe end up cheating on their husbands with another guy. Why can't they choose the other guy from the beginning who will love them and be there for them. Yes I know the money and the success and keeping up with the Jones are important but still human feeling and love are more important than money.

Answer 1

this way some women can get money as well as oppurtunities to have other men easily

Answer 2

How many of these businessmen and their wives do you, personally, know?

Many businessmen have businesswoman wives. Even if they have wives who don't work, many business aren't necessarily "chasing the money". They have gone to school, probably have at least one advanced in degree/often more than one, and may have chosen their career because it is something they are good at or something they enjoy and, yes, even something that will assure them a decent lifestyle (which isn't necessarily a bad thing and isn't necessarily the same as "chasing the money"). Some people want to know that they can bring their children into a nice lifestyle and get them into excellent schools and colleges. Business people aren't all chasing money for the sake of money. They may have "legitimate" reasons.

Also, they do gain a feeling of accomplishment much of the time, and that's not a bad thing either.

Some of those wives who work share the same goals and interests as their businessman husbands, and the ones who don't work are often very happy to have the security that business work provides.

Many of these wives have great relationships with their husbands; and maybe that's because these couples often tend to have a nice "date" at a nice restaurant, which can make things a little more romantic than going to the pizza place with a non-business-man husband or going out with the girls on Sunday afternoon because non-business-man husband is drinking his beers and watching some game on tv.

Some businessmen actually do love their wives.

Your question leads me to think you know of one businessman, his one wife, and their lousy marriage; and you're imagining that that's how it is for all people with that lifestyle. It isn't.

Answer 3

That's a whole other world that I don't live in. "Keeping up with the Jones', chasing money all the time?" These are things that I have no idea about and choose to not understand.
There are definately women out there that want those type of men and as far as I'm concerned, if they are shallow enough to chase money and status over love, they have probably dug their own lonely grave themselves.

Answer 4

Some mothers beat it into your head while you're growing up.... "its just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man".... I heard it all the time, and I"m sure most other women did too.... probably because their mothersr were poor AND unhappy, and maybe she thought if she had money, she'd have been more satisfied???? Personally,.... I find that rich, workaholic men (in general) are selfish, controlling, money oriented, lack compassion and mutuality, tend to treat you like a possession instead of a partner, and always assume that you're with them because of the money... It's NOT easy to love them. I'd prefer a sweet, poor, hardworking guy that comes home on time every night.

Answer 5

Well. Money and success plays important role.. say for example you go and buy somthing in the market.. anything you buy is measured by its looks and how gracefully they are presented. but when you get those things home after a few times of use.. those things remain unused in one corner of the house.. like that... businessmen and highly successful men are seen as best for females..much beyond it makes them think money and their outward looks will give them inward pleasure..

but sure its not that..hence so many things happen further..that they end up cheating.. afterall females are also.. humans under their outward looks.

they have physical necesscity as well a longing for mental strength.

Answer 6

I agree with you but it is a true fact. We as woman want to feel secure financially and in the process of doing so end up with a jerk.I'm not saying all men with money are a** holes but i know from experience that the money really isn't worth it when it comes down to the lonely side of it. why do you think i spend so much time on yahoo answers??? and forget about the old saying"the first time marry for love,,,, the second time for money"

Answer 7

Not all women do. Alot of those women met those men before they became workaholics. They see the "big dream". Being married,house, children, etc. Those women do eventually feel "stuck" but by then it is too late. They end up cheating to relieve the feelings of being lonely and to fill that "empty space", but they cant walk away at that point. They cannot maintain the lifestyle that they have come accostumed to if they leave.
Alot of people do mistake love and lust. And then there are those that are willing to give up on love to have the "big dream", but what they are really giving up on is their happiness and the feeling of being loved. What a high cost to pay. They are missing out on alot.

Answer 8

A lot of women choose men like that because they don't think they are capable of taking care of themselves...or because they're gold diggers in which case they're getting what they deserve! And you're absolutely right....love is far more important than money....money comes and goes, but true love is there forever

Answer 9

You ask like you think he is the only one chasing the money.

Answer 10

Living in a miilion dollar house and driving a Mercedes does feel good.