2006-10-13 23:36:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry no thanx
2006-10-14 01:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be blunt, you have to say 'No', and then stand by that response.
This may be hard to do if you aren't a strong person or feel like you are going to hurt the other person.
A marriage is not going to last if one of you get railroaded into it. Yes, you might hurt him/her now, but in the long run, it is cheaper and easier to say no now, rather than getting pressured into doing something you are not comfortable with.
Be truthful and honest and make sure that before you say yes or no, it is what you want. If you want more time to make your decision, ask for it. Any less than that and you will be hurting both of you. Good luck!
2006-10-14 06:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say your not ready and can he give you some time to see where the relationship is going (apart from marriage) and if you change your mind in the future you will let him now. Personally I would be callous and say "nah, sorry" LOL
2006-10-14 06:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by sue l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry, you're a really special person but I'm not ready for marriage. Make sure they know it's nothing personal as well.
2006-10-14 06:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by katem1992 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not destroy the person's self-esteem, but make sure he knows that you will not be marrying him. Letting someone down easy can cause a lot of problems. Don't say things like, "not ready yet," "need more time," etc. This just gives him hope.
2006-10-14 06:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy..... No. I'm not ready for marriage right now.
its better to just come out and say it than to beat around the bush
2006-10-14 07:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a nice way i cant say? you know that person not me be kind though or bless that must be an awful situation to be in are you giving off the wrong vibes for the person to ask the question in the first place/.........
2006-10-14 06:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On that day.....
thats very sweet honey, and please let me think about it, its so so flirtering....
10 days later
- honey I am sorry I haven't given you an answer yet and I wonder why something I have wanted so much is so hard to decide on.
30 days later
- I am scared of a life time commitment and I don't want to get into this feeling this way. Can we give it alittle more time, get to know eachother alittle more. This is why I feel scared about marriage .......................................
2006-10-14 06:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just say no.
It would be polite to give the person a reason why you decided on your answer.
2006-10-14 08:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by classychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say in your best Napoleon Dynamite voice: "NO, what do you think"? then say, gee I really do care about you, but I really need more time to give an answer to something so definate.
2006-10-14 06:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by q127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already answered the question. just say no. but give and explain a reason. and if he realy repects and loves you. he should except and repect your answer. and if he does not. then you were right in the first place to say no. that my advice.
2006-10-14 06:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋