making love can sometimes be the time when spouses 'least' communicate. Heh, look at our facial expressions, we actually sometimes close our eyes, why! scary sometimes, can't stand the stupid look on his/her face?! Also, sometimes we don't get what we want out of the moment! Guys have been branded as being selfish sometimes by the ladies for getting there too early.
So am curious: How many of you face these kinds of dilemas and why is it hard to communicate to him/her. Does anyone have tips on how to resolve this one.
2006-10-13 23:13:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes we forget that communication is only 25% verbal! All the rest is non-verbal. Why not SHOW him what you want? This is an awesome way to "warm-up," too! You also might find out that there are things he/she would love to do to and with you that you've been wishing he/she'd do for years but because both of you are too afraid, embarrassed, shy, or whatever to go there----it never happens! Let him catch you masturbating on the sofa. Let her walk in on you smacking your own butt. Gently guide his tongue where it needs to be or caress her lips slowly into place.
Could be the start of a new and exciting relationship!! Non-verbal is soooooo much fun! Now, where's my whip? :-)
2006-10-14 09:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it seems difficult to communicate needs I think because we feel that the other will think we're strange or slightly perverted.
No, we are all (or most...LOL) normal but with different areas that feel more pleasurable. It's a highly subjective thing.
The easy way to start is to be verbal about one or two things that the other does that you please you. You could just simply say. "That feels great!" Your partner will appreciate it and it will become easier to express yourself with each sexual encounter.
Closing the eyes or a dark room heightens the other sense of touch.
2006-10-13 23:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to figure that one out. I feel like a walking *** recepticle. I havent gotten off in 6 months. He knows it, he knows what he has to do to please me, but he still doesnt do it. hmmmmmmmmm tips would be great! Hopefully someone has some answers.
2006-10-14 00:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about what you want and how you like it look up positios on the net or atch the talk sex with sue on the oxge channel that helps
2006-10-13 23:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby and i talk during love making so i always know what he wants and he knows with me. we ask each other.
2006-10-13 23:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are under the wrong impression
2006-10-13 23:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem telling him what I want....
2006-10-14 00:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋