Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

I try to be nice and do nice things for her but she just cant stop being a bi--ch to me... what do I do....I CANT STAND IT ANYMORE

2006-10-10 04:04:57 · 25 answers · asked by bungalo 1

He has always expressed how much he wants to marry me, I have been engaged to him several times & almost made it down the aisle once, but, he has had a drug problem & been in jail twice over the course of our relationship. I have tried to move on several times over the yrs, but we always get back 2gether. We have a 13 yr old daughter. For 3 yrs he has been stable, good job, home, etc... but with his new independent life he was taking me for granted. Just recently, I thought I was pregnant & it opened both of our eyes to thinking about our future 2gether. Now he wants to get married and move in with me & be a family. I know he is the one for me, I love this man unconditionally. I have always been afraid of marriage because of my parents relationship (very cold). But my question is after 15 yrs of hoping this man would grow up, my wish has come true.I know I am going to be with him for another 15 yrs so we should get married right?or should I just let him move in? I am so confused

2006-10-10 04:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie 2

My husband and I have been maried for 5 years and we have a 2 year old son. We recently split and my mother took me into her home. Our son lives with me and his father comes and visit and takes him to spend the night every so often. My son is extremly attached to his father and cries for him all the time. I feel very guilty that I dont spend as much time with my son as I should. I have a full time job to support for him and I also attend college. I believe that my son needs me more then anything at this time and I think that the best thing for me to do is to quit school and spend time with him to show him that I am there for him. For the past 9 months that we have split I've also been thinking of getting back with my husband just because my son needs the both of us together; dispite that I have no love for him any more. What should I do?

2006-10-10 04:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by b_chika 1

then he adds..i love u and im not like that.........what do u make of that confusing answer?

2006-10-10 03:56:24 · 56 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2

2006-10-10 03:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by ElegantSweetie 2

Back when my wife and I were still dating, I had a "friend" of mine come help me move. I introduced him to my wife (back then girlfriend) and we rode in seperate vehicles. This "friend" and I rode in the U-Haul while my girlfriend rode in her car. This guy now has the nerve to tell me that he's "disappointed" in my new girlfriend. Said he would have expected me to be with an exotic chick from brazil, Dominican republic or something (mind you we are all black - me, girlfriend and this guy). Since that day I cut him OFF bcos I don't consider him a "friend" for him to disrespect the woman I'm with. However, my wife said that it was harsh of me to cut him off for that reason and can't comprehend why I would cut someone off who doesnt "approve" of whom I'm dating. Am I wrong for cutting this guy off?

2006-10-10 03:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

2006-10-10 03:40:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made the mistake of asking my husbands questions I didnt really want to know, about other girls, and I got all the answers because he was honest with me. Like telling me how some of his girlfriends are hotter then me, and which he would date if we seperated, and that he would like to have a 3 some with them and me. Now its all the time, and i dont know how to stop the pain, I know it was my fault for asking the questions, but now going on 3 months and it still hurts, expecialy when i find out he was talking to one of them, or brings them up. I just want to know how to get over the pain.

2006-10-10 03:38:16 · 23 answers · asked by Crysta L 1

My husband and I have been separated for almost 3 months . I don't want him back. My life is so much more fulfilling, my kids are happier. Things are just better in general with out that added stress that he bought to the relationship. But with all that said I still get angry and hurt behind everything that happened with us. Sometimes I feel like I am making progress at least I know I don't want him back and maybe in time the anger will go away but when dang... I want to start dating again, but I don't want to bring this anger into any future relationships. How do I get past this anger and hurt?

2006-10-10 03:25:43 · 18 answers · asked by THYCK-A-LICIOUS 1

My wife has this "friend" she chooses to call a friend but back while we were dating it seemed like this friend of hers used to act funny whenever she saw my wife (then girlfriend) being all affectionate.This "friend" of hers has a problem with me as she tends to act all quiet towards my wife whenever I was around.I keep telling my wife that this chick obviously is no "friend" because I've NEVER done anything to offend her. The most conversation I've had with her is "Hi" and "Bye" and she even mocked the way I talked a few years back when I invited all of them to my birthday party (imagine that? She comes to my own party back when my wife and I just started dating and drinks my champagne and mocks the way I talk..My wife told me this back then).The day I proposed to my wife (May,last year) this "friend" of hers congratulates my wife and doesnt say a single word to me. My wife insists that this chick is her "friend" but I feel she truly isn't.What could be this "friend's" issue with me?

2006-10-10 03:20:46 · 35 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

I went swimming and there were these two stunning girls, early to mid forties, one was blond with a short bob wearing a turquoise and dark green one piece swimming costume and was swimming breaststroke lengths in the pool and the other had longer dark plumb hair and was wearing a one piece black swimming costume and she was floating tranquilly on her back.

I have to add that both had amazing breasts.

The girl with dark plumb hair noticed that I was wearing only my boxer shorts (I always sleep in my boxers) and then started to felate me underwater while the blond girl swam behind me and started teasing my nipples.

Anyway I was thinking about taking up swimming again, good idea?

2006-10-10 03:18:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband just had a baby 6 months ago and now he is not happy. He told me last night that he thought that marrage and kids is what he wanted but now he isnt happy and he said that he thinks he maybe wasnt ment for a family life, but he still wants to work thinks out if we can and maybe if we can simplify everthing it might make him happy. I just want some of your thoughts on this I am pritty sure it is over but he said he still loves me and misses me when we are apart

2006-10-10 03:08:41 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

she loves me and i love her but she don't trutht me at all and i am not that kind of men who sheets his girl

2006-10-10 02:54:37 · 8 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2

big silocon bubbies or original not to big ones?????do the silicon girls are able to breast feeding???

2006-10-10 02:54:09 · 21 answers · asked by haki 5

I recently got married. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and they have my maiden name. I wanted to keep my maiden name so that it would not cause confusion with my kids name in school and what not. I also thought about hyphenating my name ( which I always thought was stupid until now). My husband's feeling are slightly hurt because I have not changed my name legally yet. it has been 7 months.

What I want to know is .... If I simply hyphenate my last name can I just change my license and ss #? Or do I have to go through all of my documents. I also know that I have to change my banking records.

I thought that if your name was hyphenated, you could use either lthe whole name, or the maiden name on non legal matters

This sounds very confusing.

2006-10-10 02:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 02:51:43 · 30 answers · asked by xtyn 5

tell me how to find a Long hair [preferably below waist ] prospective bride in delhi?

2006-10-10 02:48:52 · 5 answers · asked by silknroutes 2

2006-10-10 02:46:19 · 8 answers · asked by gdow 2

He has no job and bad habits

2006-10-10 02:43:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

am just askinggg!

2006-10-10 02:33:23 · 12 answers · asked by freekirabo 1

2006-10-10 02:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by picture perfect 1

He is 32, I'm 38. We've been together 6 months. He just told me today that he doesn't feel like having sex every day. I do. I never used to be like that, but with him I want him all the time. I feel like he misrepresented himself as someone who has a sexual drive equal to mine, now he admits he doesn't have it. Who needs help here? Me for excess sexual drive or him for lack of it considering his age?

2006-10-10 02:30:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found my Groom with someone else 2 hours after the wedding. anyone experince that one.?

2006-10-10 02:18:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I had a problem a few years ago with a friend of ours who decided she liked him and didn't care that he was married, well, when he figured out what she was up to he stopped talking to her as did I, this past spring we started having some problems, he is unhappy with his job and thus unhappy with everything, and he started talking to her again, one day she showed up at our church out of no where and I thought that was really strange and I asked him had he heard from her at all and he told me no, 3 months later I found out he had been talking to her and lying to me about it, well at that point he told he was no longer going to call her and she couldn't call him, and that has stopped, but now at church she always has some reason to talk to him he is our tech director and she is training on the sound board, but its stupid questions that even I could answer, I know she is just trying to get to me, but I don't know what to do?

2006-10-10 02:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by troublegt 1

2006-10-10 02:07:01 · 2 answers · asked by Allen T 1

I've no right to do this but I can't resist checking my hubby's mobile phone. I can't believe it when I saw messages going out to other women (different phone numbers!) showing messages with affectionate terms like wife and darling!

2006-10-10 02:05:16 · 27 answers · asked by june_seet 1

We have been together for 6 months and I love him very much he makes me very happy and I have prayed for god to send me an answer but it seems like hes not responding!!! I love my fiance very much but i dont want to be an embarassment to my Parents!!!

2006-10-10 02:00:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi there me and boyfriend have been together for 5 years and he split up with me a month ago there are various things.like he does not trust me hes abit paranoid cuz i got blokes numbers on my phone ,i recently wound his mate up with dirty messages was a joke i see that now,we argue,its like his door is closed i know hes the one,we are still living together so why am i still here????he slept with me in bed 2 nights in a row,he does nto touch me,i still look after him,wash his clothes etc...ive tried to talk to him,i love him so much i wanna be with him,hes very moody and things please help???? cant walk away..

2006-10-10 01:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1

My husband and I have decided to get a divorce. We have 4 children together so we have also decided to cohabitate in our home in seperate bedrooms for the sake of the children because we dont want them to have to do without either of us. We are not fighting but have come to this decision in a peaceful manner.Is this legal during and/or after the divorce? We live in Alabama by the way.

2006-10-10 01:55:55 · 32 answers · asked by Ash 5

My husband is an attorney. Obviously I have a trust issue.

2006-10-10 01:50:19 · 6 answers · asked by turkeytlk 1