2006-10-10 02:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by picture perfect 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing that you can do but remember they did not divorce because of yourself.
Hopefully your parents do not make you feel that you have to chose between them and if you feel that you are being pushed or pulled wait til things seem calm enough and talk to them about how you are feeling.
It is hard for everyone and unfortunately being the child your input on their divorce does not change anything.
Adjust and think how unhappy you would be if you had to share a desk with a person in school that you could not stand or that upsets you constantly.
It is not your fault.
So LIVE, LOVE and ENJOY what life has to offer only you can chose if you will be happy or not.
SMILE :)
2006-10-10 02:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing for you to do anything about. They are splitting from each other, they will always be your parents, so they are not splitting from you.
The best thing you can do is not get involved in it at all. Don't take sides, and don't say anything bad about either of them...you don't know the whole situation, only what each is telling you, from their point of view...so be careful about forming judgments.
Also, remember that this is a very stressful time for them, so they will be on edge, defensive...and they will both probably take turns acting like jerks...and like victims...so try to look past the "now" of things, and concentrate more on the future.
2006-10-10 09:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi picture perfect if your parents want to divorce just respect their decisions and don t judge them . I know how it is difficult to grow up in that situation so the more you learn to accept the reality the more it will be best for you .
I am sorry for my English you know i speak French
2006-10-10 09:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sunseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to see divorce but, just love them both and have a good relationship with them. My parents divorced when I was under 10 years old. Mom took my sis and moved up north and I stayed with my dad. I missed her and my sis but, I got over it over the years and my dad did the best he could. It is extremely hard to disguise feelings and hide the hurt. Please hang in there, it does get better.
2006-10-10 09:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by stickinthemud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In God's eyes, your parents are still married.
2006-10-10 10:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life that is important. Its the one thing you need to do
2006-10-10 10:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really nothing that you can do about it just continue on doing you and try not to let there sistuation bring you down
2006-10-10 09:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just accept the situation they have the responsability of their desition sorry honey nothing to do.
2006-10-10 09:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them both for money
2006-10-10 09:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING YOU CAN DO, KNOW THAT THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS AND IT IS THEIR PROBLEM, NOT YOURS.
2006-10-10 09:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋