hi there me and boyfriend have been together for 5 years and he split up with me a month ago there are various things.like he does not trust me hes abit paranoid cuz i got blokes numbers on my phone ,i recently wound his mate up with dirty messages was a joke i see that now,we argue,its like his door is closed i know hes the one,we are still living together so why am i still here????he slept with me in bed 2 nights in a row,he does nto touch me,i still look after him,wash his clothes etc...ive tried to talk to him,i love him so much i wanna be with him,hes very moody and things please help???? cant walk away..
2006-10-10 01:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
now he can just use you and not feel bad about it
2006-10-10 01:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word is we, and the way that you are describing this is that it is just you that is wanting to make things work between the two of you. If he is not showing you any love or affection then you should talk with him and find out exactly what he is wanting in this relationship that the two of you have together. If he is only wanting it one sided then you should let him know that when keeping a relationship going it takes two. And that he is going to have to start showing you that he truly loves & wants to be with you . And if he does not want to show you this then you should just move on and not allow him to take advantage of the Love that you have for him.
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-10 11:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt a bit, but walking away is looking like a good option here. He no longer trusts you, and you are becoming more of a cleaning woman than a girl friend...is that what you really want out of life? How much love and respect can he possibly feel toward you if he no longer trusts you?
2006-10-10 10:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell do you have other men's numbers on your phone, and why are you sending dirty messages to his friends? If you know he's the one, why on earth are you doing things like that? If I were him, I would leave you. Of course the door is closed. You closed it. If you want it open, show him you love him by getting on the straight and narrow.
2006-10-10 09:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your definition of love. Love doesn't hurt. Love doesn't ignore. Love doesn't cause emotional pain. You are his housekeeper, not his mate. There's no trust, no communication, no warmth. And you want to be with him??? Why?? Why can't you walk away? If you can't walk, RUN!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 09:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't walk away you are left with one choice. Suck it up. Just accept this is how he is and deal with it. If you can't do that then maybe you need to re-evaluate your situation and go from there.
2006-10-10 09:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wonder he's finished with you....how could you do that to him....you should not be having other fellas numbers in your phone, also winding his mates up with naughty texts...how would you feel if he did it to you....you don't deserve him....move out and stop making his life a misery....
2006-10-10 09:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋