Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

with hold romance for sex?

2006-10-10 05:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

we have a 3 year old son and this past year our lives have finally come together and we couldn't be happier, what one thing can I do or say to him to let him know that he is my world and I am crazy about him and appreciate everything he is and does?

2006-10-10 05:31:42 · 20 answers · asked by momma whitley 2

I have been married for nearly 12 years. I met back up with my cousin a year ago at my grans funeral. She came down to see me and we started spending a lot of time together. She got on really well with my husband and we used to have a laugh together. I found out two weeks ago that they had slept together in my house whilst I was asleep upstairs. The pair of them have told me that it just happened and as soon as they realised what they were doing they stopped. I dont know how to cope with this. I love my husband but i feel completely betrayed. I find myself wndering how many more times this has happened. They both say it has not happened before and would not happen again. But they are not going to tell me the truth. I only found out about one night.

2006-10-10 05:31:06 · 37 answers · asked by Tracy M 1

It's not much but I know she would (and has) nailed me hard for everything when she had the chance. It's been over a year since she was ordered to pay and I have yet to receive a penny and Zero help with anything as far as school, clothes, medical, anything.

2006-10-10 05:27:24 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3

He said it didn't mean anything, he said he didn't know why he did it, it was stupid, and it wasn't going anywhere???
Why would you take the time to put a profile if you didn't want a little on the side... humm.. what do I do..

2006-10-10 05:26:28 · 38 answers · asked by unhappy.... 1

told by old woman in Titanic movie.

2006-10-10 05:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are two scenarious that pass through one's head when in a bad marriage (bad marriage being one in which both people are unhappy and incompatible) before one decides to leave. One: Maybe one day we will get along and the trick to marriage is sticking through the bad times. Two: I've seen marriages in which people stay together and are unhappy for life.

The marriage I'm referring to is one where two people were married young and grew into different people.

2006-10-10 05:18:55 · 17 answers · asked by ben_j_mac 2

2006-10-10 05:14:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anna K 1

I am always catching him looking as lesbian porn. And I ask why do you look at it you are happily married. He replys I don't know and every answer is I don't know. And he says I have been doing it before I met you and so on he says. Its because you don't give me pictures. But I have and he still looks at sluts all the time and it makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. What should I do?

2006-10-10 05:13:53 · 28 answers · asked by olivia_deets 1

We've been married for almost 3 yrs and we have an 18 month old daughter 2gether. He has been abusive to me, and he has cheated on me I'm constantly catching him in a lie. I'm know that I'm not perfect but I have been the best that I can be to him considering the circumstances. I am tired as hell and I am ready to move on and don't want to keep him away from his child. He has gotten so selfish to the point where he can have his female friends but I can barely talk to my friends (females) w/o him having something to say. Through out all of what he has put me thru, I've never disrespected him or cheated on him! I'm in the process of moving and I have to tell him something soon.

2006-10-10 05:11:07 · 16 answers · asked by Dee 2

I have been best friends with a girl for 8 years now and while we have always flirted with the idea of taking our friendship to the next level, the timing has never been right. She got married young while I was away with the military and now she (and her husband) knows that she rushed into things. They are unhappy with each other and don't want the same things out of life (one wants kids, etc etc). He treats her like crap because he is unhappy and she is to the point where she doesn't care if he leaves and is even contemplating leaving him. I believe I am the one for her and I think she knows I'm the one for her, but is it my place to tell her how I feel since she is still married? I think I could be the one to make her happy like he obviously can't, but I'm torn because I know how sacred a marriage is. Help!

2006-10-10 05:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by ben_j_mac 2

I am always catching him looking as lesbian porn. And I ask why do you look at it you are happily married. He replys I don't know and every answer is I don't know. And he says I have been doing it before I met you and so on he says. Its because you don't give me pictures. But I have and he still looks at sluts all the time and it makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. What should I do?

2006-10-10 05:09:54 · 25 answers · asked by olivia_deets 1

I need to get some records for my case. I don't have an attorney. I am handling my case by myself.

2006-10-10 05:03:01 · 2 answers · asked by mekco 1

I'm new to this board and I want to thank everyone for responding. I have to add to my previous post that I left my husband 5 years ago because of his drinking and self destructive behavior. He went into a rehab program for 4 weeks. I was fully supportive and was willing to work on trusting him again. He is part of a very supportive AA group and has continued to go to meetings even though he "fell off the wagon". He has been lying to them just as he had been lying to me. His abuse never turns outward. He may help around the house and has always held a job but he has no ambition and no sense of responsibility. He has stolen money from our son and won't work more than 30-35 hours a week. I have done everything to keep the stress levels down for him and even cut him off from the bank account to protect him from himself. I would support him if he came to me but he waited for me to find out, he admitted that! I don't believe in divorce so this is really hard for me.Thank you all!

2006-10-10 04:57:59 · 9 answers · asked by Mom first 1

Okay so I was married to this jerk for 6 years we had two gorgeous children. We divorced in 2000 after I left him in because of domestic violence. Now he has a new woman (she knows nothing of his violence towards me). I don't care what he does with his life but it really burns me that he treats the children so shabby. He's cheap with them, hateful to them, and basically only visits them because it's "his right". (On this last visit he spent a good deal of the time on the phone with his broad he took the kids hiking and wouldn't get water bottles for them they both got really sick) The ex tells me that he treats them badly because it's my fault, I have poisoned them against him. I have tried everything to forge a bond between the kids and him but my kids are smarter than me, they know when to let go of a no win situation. He told my daughter than he treats this woman better than he treated me is because she's Anglo and I'm a "lowly Latina". What should I do?

2006-10-10 04:57:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

out. I don't know what to do. I'm planning this big birthday party for her with her best friend, and she knows something is up. What do I do?

2006-10-10 04:54:33 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

When parents remarry, should a step-mother pay child support for her husband's child? I know that legally, she doesn't, but what is your opinion on this? The step-mother also has a child from a previous marriage to support, and the new couple has a child together. Child support is deducted from the father's pay check, but anything extra the mother asks for, should it be given if the father has another child in the home to support? I would like to read your thoughts.

2006-10-10 04:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by jeffandchristymoss@verizon.net 2

2006-10-10 04:53:32 · 22 answers · asked by Baby 5

I was with this man for 5years and we got married in London 3years ago.He's english and I'm turkish.He constantly delayed our wedding ceremony in Turkey for years. I have introduced him to my family, to my relatives, friends ..But he didn't even let anyone know about our marriage from his community. Last year, we came to Turkey and set up a new business.Last summer we were looking for wedding places.And he suddenly left me just 2 days after we looked for another wedding place. He has also transferred the money we had for our business.I had to go through with our business while I was going through a terrible emotional break down.I was worried about him, if he was ok.I didn't know anything about where he was. I called his family and they treated me like a **** and told me nothing. He screwed my life, wasted my 5 years. I was humiliated in front of my family and my relatives..He showed no respect for my culture.If want to divorce him, what would be my financial rights? He is in prague now

2006-10-10 04:53:02 · 1 answers · asked by snm 1

I need to subpoena some records to for my case.

2006-10-10 04:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by mekco 1

My wife said she wans a divorce because she is not in love with me anymore. The one thing i dont understand is that she still wants to be freinds and has stated multiple times that she doesnt want to lose me sexually. She made it perfectly clear to me she is in love with my anatomy and performance and has told me..you are by far the best at that and you can have this whenever you want including if she is with someone else but i dont want you anymore. I cant really understand this. Am i crazy or is she?

2006-10-10 04:48:47 · 32 answers · asked by Joe B 1

My husband doesnt want to be with me anymore, he thinks that he hasnt really lived his life, and that he doesnt want to be tied down anymore. We were young, got married when he was nineteen and I was eighteen. We have been married for six years. I love him and we have two kids. I always will love him and I wish that he would just change his mind and see what he has in front of him. A wife and family who love him. Unfortunately he never told me this I had to figure it out on my own and he just confirmed my suspicions today. I feel like he needs to grow up, What do I do now? Where do I go from here. Im heartbroken. How do I deal with this. I still love him and I wanted to make this work but it just doesnt work that way... Isnt there a way we can work this out? or am I doomed for divorce court?

2006-10-10 04:42:43 · 20 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

what do you all th9ink

2006-10-10 04:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by bungalo 1

2006-10-10 04:36:37 · 13 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

I dont want to get a devorce but I dont know what to do. I love her and I think she loves me but I cant seem to get along with her for very long.

2006-10-10 04:33:54 · 16 answers · asked by bungalo 1

We are talking about divorce and we know that it is court ordered but someone told us there is a way to sign a waver so that he doesnt have to pay. My husband isnt a dead beat dad and has agreed to help pay for the kids but if we get a divorce and he is ordered to pay child support it will take over half of his income ( we sat down and figured this out) and he wont be able to live off of his own income, I was wondering if theres anyway to get him out of paying for this.. and yes I know its court ordered.

2006-10-10 04:33:32 · 24 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

with a handsome and successful man files for a divorce to be with another man even though her parents take the husband's side and she risks losing the children, what would be the possible reason if any? Would any of you do this for any man?

2006-10-10 04:32:07 · 13 answers · asked by Eddie J 1

What would be a good way to let her know without fighting that we need to fix our problems and it takes two I cant do it myself.

2006-10-10 04:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by bungalo 1

4 Years ago my husband had a one night stand. I'm just now hearing about this. I have forgiven him and told him that we are to get marriage counseling. The problem I'm having is everytime I lie down on our bed to go to sleep I see my husband having relations with someone that's not me, how do i get it out of my head?

2006-10-10 04:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by mommy 1

I recently told my husband I want him out of the house. We have been together for 14 years the last 5 of which I thought he was sober. A recent death in his estranged family drove him to start drinking again. He is once again on a self distructive path that I refuse to go down again. He has never been able to provide for us financially (we have 3 kids) but I felt he made up for that by helping a lot around the house, making dinner, volunteering for activities with the kids. But now I don't think that's enough. How can I stay with a man that I no longer trust or respect? He has worked the past 5 years trying to get that back and I'm not willing to try again. I'm not sure what my question is and maybe I'm just looking for reassurance that I'm doing the right thing. It's not a matter any more of if I need him. I don't think I want him. I feel guilty because I have been his only safety net. I feel guilty. I don't want him to spiral out of control. What do I do now?

2006-10-10 04:06:23 · 17 answers · asked by Mom first 1