He said it didn't mean anything, he said he didn't know why he did it, it was stupid, and it wasn't going anywhere???
Why would you take the time to put a profile if you didn't want a little on the side... humm.. what do I do..
2006-10-10 05:26:28 · 38 answers · asked by unhappy.... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LEAVE HIS A$$! If he is STUPID enough to do that, then he is STUPID enough to follow through. You deserve better than that. NOBODY does something like this and not know why! LEAVE HIS STUPID A$$!
2006-10-10 05:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I tell you this sweety, but he's searching for more than what you can give him. He is letting his fantisy's control his actions. I should know, it happened to me after two years of marriage. My wife changed her goals in life and I wasn't really a part of them. I had a big problem with Online Adult services, online porn, and masturbation. I suggest going to church and getting faith together. If he does not change now, your marriage will not survive. Technically, The bible say's he has committed Adultrey. If he even thinks of another woman sexually or fantisies about another woman he's already cheated on you. Your choice!
2006-10-10 05:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick my man's a**. That is completely unacceptable and i think it is DEFIANTLY betraying our trust. I would take this very seriously and make sure you talk about how you feel about him doing something like that to you. I would then ask how he would feel if you did something like that. If he is curious outside the relationship then he is more likely to CHEAT. This is a big deal. I would get rid of the ENTIRE computer or Internet so he got the point. I'm NOT kidding. Don't back down and be STRONG.
2006-10-10 05:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knew exactly what he was doing by putting his profile on an adult dating site. Sounds like your hubby is seeking a bit of attention from outside the marriage.
2006-10-10 05:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm yeah sure he didnt mean it. LOL thats bull **** if i ever heard it. You present a good point why would he have done it if he didnt want extra. Well maybe he is tired of you i'm sorry i'm not trying to be mean or anything i just think maybe there is some deeper issues here you need adress before they get out of control. Men can be real dumb asses!!!
2006-10-10 05:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're headed for divorce court. You know how much effort your husband had to go through to get that online? He's full of crap and he's definitely on the road to infidelity if he's not there already.
You can put all the parental controls on it you want to, he'll figure out a way around it. Besides, do you really want to be married to a man who can't regulate his own behavior without you blocking him?
2006-10-10 05:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 03:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like someone I know very well.When you get busted like that The best way to answer someone is to say I don't know cause it just ends all . I think that he is out there & this is probably not his 1st time. Just his 1st time getting caught. I can't say that you should leave or stay cause no matter what I said you will do it your way. When you get tired of it you will do what you feel is best. Trust me it will happen again.
2006-10-10 05:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him that you want to share with him and have him help you put your profile on the same site. In working through that it will come out what he wants: more sex and you, more sex and not you, or you.
2006-10-10 05:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by nonyahbusiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question him about it, and find out why, ask him to remove it, and maybe suggest couples therapy. or some sort of councelling, Its sounds like he is not totally happy,,,But comunication is the best thing.
You two have to sit down and talk, and find out what the problem is,, There is something,,and you have to find out what...
And if it didn't mean anything, he wouldn't have put it there in the 1st place,,
Good Luck, I hope all works out for you
2006-10-10 05:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mumof3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY, this is probably your last chance. You have to step up to the plate now. You are not perfoming your duties as a wife. Prolonged Oral, Anal sex, outdoor sex, Dogging, BDSM, dress to impress, swinging, If you do not start soon, someone will do it for you. Lose a few pounds experiment and pleasure him and his needs, of the furutre looks VERY BLEAK for you. Oh! bye the way ignore the religious pious puritan nutters that post..they all sit for hours on here whilst their partners are doing it all over the place x
2006-10-10 05:30:30 · answer #11 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋