with a handsome and successful man files for a divorce to be with another man even though her parents take the husband's side and she risks losing the children, what would be the possible reason if any? Would any of you do this for any man?
2006-10-10 04:32:07 · 13 answers · asked by Eddie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I wouldnt do it...I mean if I was really inlove with the other man, I might be tempted but i have kids to think about.
2006-10-10 04:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many variables in this one. If you really must leave your husband then you need to be only friends with the other man until divorce is final. Kids should come first no matter what they didn't ask for any of this. It isn't their fault and they are your primary concern, but after divorce if the other man is good for you and kids then you can pursue that relationship, but you have to look deep within and see what you think is right and follow that.
2006-10-10 12:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never do anything that put me in risk of losing my kids, Not for NO ONE..Espeically No Man,,Kids are forever, Men are a dime a dozen.
But if i was in a loveless marriage, i would not stay in it,i would take my kids and leave, and work out a visitation between them and their father, but i would not leave my hubby for another man, with the risk of losing my kids.
The grass is NEVER greener on the other side. Things are not always what they seem to be.
You don't have to stay with someone whom you don't love,,especially not for the kids as some do,,,,but leave for your own reasons, not for someone else...If you have to leave for someone else, you are doing it for the wrong reasons......The only ones i would do this for, is for My Kids,,Not for a Man
As i said
Kids are Forever, Men come and go
2006-10-10 12:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mumof3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be going through something and it's gonna be to late when she realizes what she has done and lost. It's obvious (grass is greener on the other side) she will do the extreme with divorce, etc. and 6months to a year from now, boohoo I messed up. People are sorry and heartless and care for themselves. Marriage is forever in my eyes. Sorry you are going through this but you will be stronger in the end. NO matter how hard it seems, things are only temporary.
2006-10-10 12:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by momma whitley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she risk loosing the kids for adultery. However did this man all of the sudden showed up, or was this man the love of her life?. I mean men do it all the time, they leave their wives of years, their kids, their families, for a another woman, but no one seems to care when that happens.
I would not leave my husband, unless I fell out of love.
2006-10-10 11:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by gjmite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is children invloved I feel that the mother has to look in their childrens best interest. I wouldn't divorce my husband right away without really trying to make it work, counseling, talking really trying to figure out why you feel in love in the first place. You have a family try to make it work!!!!
2006-10-10 11:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's apparently going for the "grass is greener on the other side" angle; she apparently needs something from the guy that her parents aren't privy to - like hot sex.
she's being immature and unrealistic, but once that fire goes out and she's left alone, you might be the one laughing last.
2006-10-10 11:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the high hard one....sounds like an addiction...who knows?
You have to wonder if the new man is one of those bling wearing rich drug dealer/criminal types. So many women are falling for those losers these days.
2006-10-10 11:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - It will only make life harder. Everything you've worked for and who you are will be tarnished.
The grass isn't greener on the other side - it's the same shade of green. Only lonelier.
2006-10-10 11:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my children more than any man!! You must not.
2006-10-10 12:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by tonibananas72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋