what do you all th9ink
2006-10-10 04:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by bungalo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because you're insecure -- same reason i have a hard time with my husband talking to other girls -- i'm afraid he'll find someone better or more interesting....
2006-10-10 04:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must care a lot about her. She makes you happy, or feel comforted, and you enjoy her company. She is probably a favorite, if not the only one that you are giving your full attention to.
You like the way you feel around her, and you fear that she will find someone she may like better, and that you will lose her attention.
Like the others said, it is insecurity. People often feel like that about 'special ones' in their life. It is so good that you don't want to lose it, and you fear that someone better, or possibly who has more than you do, or are able to attain.....that this person can steal her away.
But if it is genuine, and if she is that great.......then none of that will matter, and her place is secure, right next to you because she CHOOSES to stay there.
2006-10-10 11:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy is ok especially at the begining of a relationship. However, jealousy does tend to fester and get worse. Maybe it bothers you because either she's going over the line ir you're insecure. You need to figure it out and try and fix it so that the jealousy doesn't get worse.
2006-10-10 11:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous is good, being over jealous is bad, very bad. You have to overcome it. Have more communication with your girl and let her know how you feel so she could help you. Probably she feel the same way you do. Communication will give you both understanding and it will make your relation more secure and stronger. You and your girl have to know more about each other, what you like and what you don't like, what make you happy and what not, the same way with her. Become one and you will last for ever. Good Luck!!
2006-10-10 11:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on having this insight about what you're doing. Recognizing there is a problem is the first step in solving it.
2006-10-10 11:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you're a dude and it's in our nature. We are territorial creatures. Just make sure you handle your business at home and you won't have to worry about her straying. Don't lose control and get angry with her, unless it's worth it.
2006-10-10 11:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Autogestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
males are basically animals as are we women,,men protect their own from others moving in on their territory and women fight to protect the family,,it is normal but be aware,,to much jealousy will spoil what you have,,keep it working for you,,not against.
2006-10-10 11:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal reaction. If it bothers you THAT much , express your feelings to her about it. thats all you can do. & by doing that you will, know right away , where you stand. BE TACTFUL, though!
2006-10-10 11:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by groggro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are devious and deceptive and they will do what they can get away with. Stop it now.....
2006-10-10 11:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't get juelous adn if you feel like you are gettign mad then just tell her you wanna leave adn tell albout is.
2006-10-10 11:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by Shamika S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋