Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

Would you stay in a relationship if everything was okay, but the sex was not so hot?

2006-10-10 10:19:40 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

2006-10-10 10:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by do little 1

2006-10-10 10:12:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 10:07:04 · 38 answers · asked by STEVEN A 1

I love love love... my kids they keep me happy, healthy and young!

2006-10-10 10:05:37 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 3 years of marriage, he is unable to meaningfully participate in a dialogue or compromise in any way. All problems are eventually identified as mine. Won't go to counseling, either.

2006-10-10 10:03:27 · 15 answers · asked by kat 1

2006-10-10 10:03:04 · 14 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1

2006-10-10 10:02:35 · 23 answers · asked by vicki r 2

My girlfriend does not have a good relationship with her mom or dad. I'm just wondering how awkward that would be if we got married and she doesn't have her dad to walk her down the aisle. Anyone had such an experience?

2006-10-10 10:00:32 · 16 answers · asked by jugglaman 4

2006-10-10 09:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by Michael B 1

2006-10-10 09:58:59 · 6 answers · asked by Michael B 1

Any magic words, words of wisdom, etc. to help me forget about my lying, cheating ex-husband? I am trying to deal with all the pain and anger but it is taking awhile. I guess that is normal after a 13 year marriage.

2006-10-10 09:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious bcos I've heard some women say it was hard to leave a guy 'cos the sex was so great? Do women REALLY do this or are these just cover ups of them tryin to deny that they were in love?

2006-10-10 09:49:06 · 25 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

I recently separated from my husband for the 2nd time in 1 year due to his infidelity with the same woman.We've been married for 24 years.I just found out that this wan't the 1st time he's cheated on me.I knew something was wrong b4 but didn't think anything actually happened.Wrong!Let it be known that he's an alcoholic and has gotten worse throughout the years.He's blamed me 4 so many things and I know it's due to his drinking.I was completely faithful to this man.He was my 1st, since I was 16 when we met.I started having feelings for another guy years ago but fought the feeling because I loved my husband.He is now living with this other woman and has stopped going to work.We bought a new house 2 years ago, and I wish I never had.He should've said he didn't want to buy this house.Now I am stuck with all the bills.I still love this man, the love of my life.I am in counseling but every time I see or talk to him I get depressed.It is easier now.Anyone with similar story, please share!

2006-10-10 09:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by BluePassion 4

I cant climax?

Is there something wrong with me?

2006-10-10 09:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF is an alcoholic. He admits to it. The good part (if you can call it that) he always drinks at home, NEVER drives, holds a good job, is an excellent employee and is the sweetest man ever when he's sober.
The bad part is having to watch him self destruct, ruin his health, we can never go anywhere at night because he is drunk and sometimes when he's drunk he starts fights that turn into MAJOR battles.
I know that it's the alcohol that makes him act this way, but at times I really can't deal with it.

I know they have groups for alocoholics, but does anyone know of a group to help me deal with an alcoholic BF?

2006-10-10 09:46:25 · 13 answers · asked by MCS 2

The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My
wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask
their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know
them."

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always
walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has
gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I
once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went
berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was
I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep
down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out
again and I decided to really check on her. I decided I was going to park
my Harley Davidson motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it
so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was
at that moment, crouching behind my Harley, that I noticed that the valve
covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?

2006-10-10 09:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day when me and my partner of 4 years sat down and discussed our true feelings for each other I explained to him that I still love him as a person because we've been together for so long, but that I'm no longer IN love with him. He didn't seem to comprehend that concept of love vs. being IN love and said to him there is no difference between the two. "Either you love or you don't" he said. To me those are two distinct feelings. Is this a man thing or am I the crazy one here? I'd like for men to answer, but if the ladies have any input feel free to answer as well.

2006-10-10 09:44:32 · 8 answers · asked by october g 3

he gets so jealous of mexican men with tattos im a babyface lover with lots of tats i like the thugish type man and hes so opposite. older than me by 14 years.but hes an ***.

2006-10-10 09:43:21 · 15 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1

See my friends got married one friend happens to be my boss. But her Partner is cheating and told me all about it. Now they have broken up but the cheater is trying to get back with her do I tell her the truth and save her more heart ache?? Or do I not tell and let her go back and get cheated on??

2006-10-10 09:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

I am married and mostly happy except our sex life is lacking, so I began an affair to be satisfied sexually and have fallen in love with the man I am having an affair with. I do love my husband and he is a good man and wonderful father. Everytime I mention there is something wrong with our sex life he gets defensive, so I feel as if I were driven to the arms of another man. I do love them both and now am on an emotional roller coaster.

2006-10-10 09:40:31 · 19 answers · asked by fatt_bottom_girl2001 1

i cant think for myself or speak to another man even at a grocerie store am i stuck or will he change? i love him but hes wacked help me out here k

2006-10-10 09:38:59 · 24 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1

hes jealous of men i knew before him way way way back and all new people i see and dont know yet.

2006-10-10 09:35:38 · 16 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1

2006-10-10 09:34:25 · 23 answers · asked by Karrien Sim Peters 5

2006-10-10 09:33:22 · 18 answers · asked by discounted.annsummers 1

2006-10-10 09:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by nuclearhead79 1

2006-10-10 09:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my husband and I had my own home a job I liked and I was happy. After a while he asked me if I and my two children would like to move in with him.I thought about it and said yes. I was in love with him and wanted to share my life with him.So after alot of thought I moved in with him. I sold mine and the childrens home.(It was ex council so I had to pay then part of my discount back) then I had to get out of mortgage etc. So we moved in and then early this year we got married. He tells me about 4 weeks into marraige that he is in serious debt.Not a mention previously.I dont meen a few grand either,Its alot more than that.He is also not the man I married.I feel like he lied to me from the start.He coverd up his debt.Now I dont feel as though I want to be with him but Im homeless if I leave!!!all my money from my house went into our life together.If I divorce will I walk away with nothing?He is on a payment plan IVA.do I not have a leg to stand on financialy if I decide to leave.

2006-10-10 09:29:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

adknowledge that I have even asked a question. What do you do?

2006-10-10 09:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by curious 1

i have been with my husband for 11 years and i still find it really hard to talk to him about *** and the things i like and dislike have you ever had this prob and if so what have you done to over come it .can you give me any ways i could go about telling him how i feel with out hurting his feelings thanks .

2006-10-10 09:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by kristy 3