well...think about it really hard before you make your decision ya know weigh out the pros and cons or whatever you gotta do but just do whatever makes you happy
2006-10-10 09:37:58
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answered by KrIsTyN 4
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In my opinion... and this is only an opinion. Your decision to get married was a commitment to work through problems together. There are no simple answers, just a willingness to work through the issues. I would suggest you have a conversation with your husband and outline your concerns. Tell him this is something that needs to be addressed immediately if the marriage is to be successful. Jealousy like many other social disorders can be resolved through counselling and talking. But you must both be honest and open. Tell him you will stay by him as long as he is willing to work at it.
2006-10-10 11:49:26
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all if he treated you that way before you were married then why did you marry him? He shouldn't be jealous. Jealousy is a sickness. Since you two just got married you shouldn't give up so soon. Maybe you two should go into counseling have you tried that?
2006-10-10 09:42:33
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answered by Val 1
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Your husband apparently has some insecurities about himself. Open your eyes honey, your man has no self-esteem.
You need to talk to your husband about trust in a relationship. His consistent jealousy isn't going to help your marriage, it will only cause a barrier between the two of you. And, controlling you is not the answer! The two of you are equal. God didn't make Eve out of Adam's foot to be trampled on or out of Adam's head to be superior, but out of Adam's rib to be equal.
If he continues his ways then the two of you HAVE to get marriage counseling. IF things get too bad, rely on close family or friends for a place to stay. Controlling husbands can lead to womanizers & abusers.
2006-10-10 09:41:37
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answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6
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wow , in the beginning we all feel kinda imprisoned - that is natural. but that jealous trip makes me think he's even worse than what i was thinking. and in the long run it will run you completely off! if you don't get some help with a marriage counselor , it will only get worse. jealousy is just like a disease..it grows. so he does need help or it will eventually come between the two of you for good. good luck honey and do take care.
2006-10-10 12:10:02
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answered by kierstead 3
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I use to be jealous, not to the point I acted like I owned her, but when my wife and I got married I knew she wanted me and me only. Your hubby has some serious insecurities. He needs to address them or else you're going to find being married to him harder and harder.
2006-10-10 09:40:32
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answered by St.Anger 4
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That doesn't make you a prisoner. It just means he's jealous.
Talk to him, and tell him that you chose HIM. And that's all you want. Communication is key. People give up way to easy these days.
2006-10-10 09:39:06
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answered by jt 3
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I went htrough something like that with my first husband. I spent three and a half years with him before i got up the nerve to leave him. Get out and get out fast!! It will probably only get worse.
2006-10-10 09:40:05
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answered by lady_lucktyree 2
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Well, first off, he doesn't "own" you... But if he's a control freak, he will be as obsessive, and push as much, as he can get away with. Obviously, you're letting him. Put your foot down.
2006-10-10 09:47:21
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answered by Anonymous
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tell him you got married to be Happy not to be a piece of property.tell him if he wont's to own someone to go buy a whore.
2006-10-10 09:40:53
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answered by Anonymous
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