Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

almost every night, my friend's husband, alvin is seen dating the same girl all over town. i'm really concerned about my friend... i don't want to meddle in their marriage, though. how can i help her? should i stay quiet about these things and let her find out on her own?

2006-10-10 20:44:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby and i got married when we were 21(11 yrs ago). I thought he likes woman by talking, dating etc, but recently his latest girlfriend confessed that its to extent of taking them to bed and worst still on our bed. She has done 4 abortions so far. I support the family especially time and money. We have 3 kids ages 11,9, 6. I want to leave him but i stayed because of my children. I'm sexually active. I can't imagine life without sex if i divorce..What should i do?

2006-10-10 20:39:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife complains it hurts during sex. She has been checked out by the gyno and no problems found. Everything normal. She gets pretty wet during forplay but maybe some lube will help? What should we try first? Do you use any lube during intercourse?

2006-10-10 20:29:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm married 4 2 yrs , knew my wife 4 6 yrs, now then she claim she want freedom, caught her taking foto wif some guys but she deny any relationship wif anyone. how 2 track her down? or how do i can find out abt this guy she going out wif?

2006-10-10 20:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Zack 1

If so was there a way to enjoy him? Was he to long or to thick? Or both? Is there any sex aid out there to help with this situation?

2006-10-10 20:19:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby spends ALL of his time on his laptop. Our relationship has come down to him making noises or saying 2 words as I walk past (while I'm trying to do 5 things at once). He neglects me, our daughter, his responsibilities. I am also expected to do all of the housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, finances etc....He wants me to stay home because if I work it will cut into his time. I have no life because I have to take care of everything while he does what he wants. I was madly in love with him when we married 3 years ago. His computer thing started when I got prego 2 years ago. He is no longer the man I once loved. (I think I hate him). Do you think there is hope for our marriage? I have no income and am afraid of him getting custody in a divorce. I welcome any suggestions...thanks

2006-10-10 20:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by monkeymadness 2

2006-10-10 20:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by -=_Aiah_=- 1

my boy friend is always saying complaints that i am not loving him... listen guys i used to talk to him everyday very sweet, calling so many lovely nick names, giving kisses through phone( we live far away), writing vast emails everyday, buying gifts for him, caring so much like had ur dinner why are u late my baby.. showing my love as much as i can, when we are alone we give kisses including french kiss or anything that he wants me to do.. i am not against anything.. but he want me to be a show off person infront of the public, he want me to give kisses and hugs infront of every guys, i am from india we are not supposed to do this things infront of public, its immoral and people will see us as bad. i like to show my love to him when we are alone, when ever i feel privacy, i will kiss him sure in public places if there isnt anyone over there so i mean i need privacy. i dont fight to him, even though he fight i make compromises , i dont say a word against him,he is not understanding me

2006-10-10 20:10:02 · 4 answers · asked by ann m 1

I have no kids, and I want to leave some assets to my nieces which is close on half my estate. If I do this, my wife will still be left with plenty, even though she does not need it.

2006-10-10 20:04:14 · 16 answers · asked by hoarfen 2

2006-10-10 19:49:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my lover is always compalning that i am not loving him, i know how much i am showing my love to him, i talk very sweet and soft to him, even though he get angry i wont shout at him wont say anything bad, i will talk to him everyday through phone( we live far away), but he is saying u dont have love, he want me to show his love infront of others i mean in public places in streets , i am not show off like that, i always show how i love him yes infront of everyone or infront of strangers or in public i wont give frecnch kiss and all. when we are alone, we i have privacy i do eevrything.... i never want to be a show off person showing every people that how i am loving him so i dont do such thing in public places.. i am living in india, its not an european culture to hug and kiss in the road, our culture is different than any other countries.. why doesnt he understand me that how i am loving him, i am sending emails everday like vast novels, calling him everyday, giving gift when he is near

2006-10-10 19:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by ann m 1

years ago i dated a man and i can honestly say that he is the only man i have ever been in love with. we were in the military and he was sent somewhere else on such a short notice that i didnt get to say bye. after not hearing from him for quiet sometime i was convinced that i was never going to see him again. it was heartbreaking. a few years later i got married to my husband. i love him with all my heart, but im not in love with him.
well after several years we found each other on myspace and it was like we were never apart. he told me that he was sorry for leaving like that (he didnt have a choice) and that he had thought about me a lot. he said that he still had deep feelings for me and after some time asked to see me (not for sex). i said that i thought it wasnt a good idea. this was several months ago and it has been on my mind 24/7. im not the cheating type but im scared that if i dont take this chance that i will never know. what would you do? please no derogatory replies.

2006-10-10 19:35:51 · 27 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2

In a discussion yesterday with my wife has admitted to looking up a ex boyfriend on the internet. He is a musician and has a web site about his band and where they are playing. Should I be worried about it? I aksed her if she would mind if i did the same and she got very defensive about it....She never anwsered my question.

2006-10-10 19:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he knew too that our relationship has turn cold, but he is trying hard to keep the relationship. as for me, i know that i got no feeling for him at all, but i do not dare to open my mouth cos i am afraid he will do something silly. anyone can advised?

2006-10-10 19:28:03 · 14 answers · asked by l_littlewoman 1

2006-10-10 19:25:11 · 11 answers · asked by burn 3

I give my boyfriend oral, and he and I both enjoy it very much, but he won't give me oral. I don't know why. We never really discuss it because I don't even think about it. I don't miss it. I love intercourse, and giving him oral, and I have no problem never getting oral for myself. In fact, just the fact that he doesn't voluntarily give me the same, makes me NOT want it. If I had to ask him for it, then I would feel like he really didn't want to do it, but is just doing it to get "the chore" over with. I would not want that! I am very clean. Should I ask him if he has gone down on other women in the past, and if its just me that he won't do this, too? Or, should i just leave well enough, alone, since I am fine with what I have?

2006-10-10 19:24:05 · 25 answers · asked by Monic 2

If my ex agrees to the buy out, am I obligated to pay the realtors commision even though I am buying the house, or is there a way to cancel the realtors contract?

2006-10-10 19:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by californiarad 2

I know this was asked befor but do you or have you ever discussed your spouses sexually history? Age 36 and I've been with 2 women and my wife (35) has been with 8 men. She says she feels like a "slu*t" now because she has been with many more partners then I. Sexually she is kind of prude. Is this because she is trying to not show me the she has experiance? Is it wrong to talk about her experiances (sexuallly)? I think i would like to know what she has done sexually. Would you want to know or tell your partner?

2006-10-10 19:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

for school assignment.

2006-10-10 19:01:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

on a bad note? Most of the time, when some one wants out of a relationship they wait for a bad situation to occur before ending it. Why wait for that? If they know it is not going to work, just tell them. The other may still get upset, but it doesn't really have to be on bad terms. Or am I just nutts for believing this way? So many question I know........

2006-10-10 18:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

what is the most sexiest thing that a husband can do during sex or making love. from a woman point of view.

2006-10-10 18:45:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-10 18:44:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Wife and I are finally going to have a night alone, besides a candle lit dinner what can I do? We have all night so I need some creative romantic ideas!!! Not to expensive either. 10 points to best idea!!! THANK YOU

2006-10-10 18:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I have been together nearly a year and a half. We went out for lunch with some friends last week and the subject of marriage came up. My partner stated that he never wants to get married as it affects a relationship and it would interfere with his business. The main thing I want in life is to buy a house (with or without someone), get married and have children, but it is long on the cards yet.
Since he has sed this, i find i am disliking his company.

Should I stay or should I go??

and he never puts out :)

2006-10-10 18:33:53 · 25 answers · asked by adnil 1

I have tried a million times to get my husband to take care of himself. He won't do it. He will let himself go w/o showers a few days and his bathroom habits make me physically ill...he reeks! I tell him he stinks--he gets mad. We have a 3 & 5 yo girl & boy--I believe we as parents must set examples. He isn't how I want my kids to be when they grow up! Also, we fight about him helping me with the household chores--he vows to do better and does for a couple days and then reverts back to not doing anything and leaving messes. I cannot take it. I am 25yo and have hypertension--is that insane or what?!? He has NO respect for me--he doesn't even respect himself! I have talked till I was blue in the face--nothing ever sinks in. I have been thinking of seperating but is this a legit reason? Really? What about my kids? These are the top issues w/our marriage--the other being his job is highly stressful. We fight daily. I am sooo sick of it. But I worry about my kids not having their dad.

2006-10-10 18:31:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in a 5 year marrige and my wife is always fighting and screaming and i cant take it anymore i have stayed with her for a year because of my 3 year old son , should i continue to stay or is it best to leave i dont want to lose my son but i cant take the abuse anymore and someone said that it is bad to stay in a relationship because of a child what to do

2006-10-10 18:29:56 · 16 answers · asked by jason_narsil 1

he will not talk to me any more. the only time he talks to me is when he want to tell me that i am doing something wrong or to ask me to make dinner. most of the time i just want to shake the chit out of him. is there anyone out there that fells like me?

2006-10-10 18:27:31 · 6 answers · asked by Kia E 3

2006-10-10 18:22:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is what I was always taught - it was a sign that the woman was joining the man's household and was his property now. Am I right here?

2006-10-10 18:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

her husband is not living with her , they have a 1 yr old daughter

2006-10-10 18:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous