i have got no feeling at all for my husband, wanted a divorced but do not know how to start it.?

Question

he knew too that our relationship has turn cold, but he is trying hard to keep the relationship. as for me, i know that i got no feeling for him at all, but i do not dare to open my mouth cos i am afraid he will do something silly. anyone can advised?

Answer 1

I went through the exact same thing and after several years I had to break it off for my own well being. He absolutely couldn't understand and went nuts. He even tried to commit suicide twice. So I say you have to do it rather than prolong an unhealthy relationship. It will only make you both bitter as more time passes. But just be prepared for the crazy side of him you may not even know existed. Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

I believed that you must be feeling bad on this issue. There is no such thing as right or wrong in any relationship. If you really have no feeling for your husband, I suggest that it is best for both of you to have a talk on this subject and not let the matter drag longer. The longer you drag the worse it will turn out. What you need to do is that clear the air once and for all. If your husband is mature enough I believe he would not do something silly. All he will do is to wish you happiness in future.

Answer 3

What kind of feeling that u need?Give both of u some more time.U see your husband try so hard to rebuild the relaxtionship.That mean he was a good husband.He so care about u.U know?Other people with ask u to divorce but l'm not agree about it.Maybe u both should go back to the place which u both have go b4 married.Oh yes.lf your husband have done any wrong thing behind u than u can think about the divorce.

Answer 4

Take some time apart for a little while and if thats what makes you happy, tell him how you feel and if hes a psyco about it. Get a lawayer and a ppo. If it get thats bad if not just tell him you have fallen out of love with him and you think it would be best if yall were spereated. It takes 2 dear, one can try there hardest but without that second hand in there nothing is going to work. Get out and be happy! Isnt that what life is all about??!

Answer 5

You need a lot of courage to do speak up, but you have to do it, asap ! Do not drag as imaginations may go wild to both u & him.

Can the relationship still be work out? Tried counscelling ?

If you have decided that divorce is the only solution. TELL him face to face, then engage a lawyer to proceed. If he agrees, then the uncontested divorce will be cheap, if he refuse , be prepared to pay thousands of dollars to the lawyer.

Answer 6

What are the ground(s) for Divorce in Singapore?
There is only one ground for Divorce, i.e. that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. 5 factual situations which may give rise to this ground are:-
Adultery
Unreasonable behaviour
Desertion
Separation for 3 years with consent
Separation for 4 years without consent

Do he do any things wrong to you?

Answer 7

If you have no feelings for your husband then why did u marry him? Ask yourself that Do u really love him???
If yes then y do u want a divorce....
If no then tell me the reason of getting married to him, if you are not loving him.....

Answer 8

You need to tell him how you feel, otherwise things will just get worse. I know it's hard but to keep up the charade is unfair on both of you.
Good luck.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

go to see a lawyer tell him what you told me thay will put him out of the house