My wife complains it hurts during sex. She has been checked out by the gyno and no problems found. Everything normal. She gets pretty wet during forplay but maybe some lube will help? What should we try first? Do you use any lube during intercourse?
2006-10-10 20:29:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not circumcised
2006-10-10 20:33:21 · update #1
She claimes i'm bigger then any guy she has been with. Im the only person she has had pain with? putting a big damper on our sex life...
2006-10-10 21:00:32 · update #2
How big are you? She needs to still go to the doctor still, because this is abnormal, or get a second opinion KY Jelly is great, with many different kinds.
2006-10-10 20:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by blonndilox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be a sex expert but I will tell you based on my experience at the age of 50+. I say the best sex meaning a natural sex no need to use lubricant. For your case I would strongly advise you to perform sex naturally that would give both parties the most satisfaction. You need to be a bit gentle on your penetration action and less being aggressive if you know what I mean. Believe me, you don't need any lube whatsoever.
2006-10-11 03:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the fools that have answered this far know ANYTHING!! KY jelly???? Come ON!!! People who use KY have only sucky moderate sex! WHO LIKES STICKY??? (not ME!) Sticky SUCKS!! And.....for the UNcircumcized fool who answered that there's nothing you can do because youre circumcised...well, he's a straight up IDIOT!!! He has sex, alright! WITH HIMSELF!
THE BEST lube in the ENTIRE world....drum roll, please.........is: " EROS" (it's the greek word for love) It is never ever sticky and the stuff has such staying power that it makes the energizer bunny look sad...goes on and on and on....
HOWEVER, It IS PRICEY!! You have to pay quantity money for quality product, so in this case, it's $40.00 for a little tiny bottle. But it's an investment you should DEFINITELY make! You'll see why!
2006-10-11 03:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by crazynays 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm, you may not agree with this but don't knock it until you try it. The best (BEST!#1) lubrication is Butter. Yip, BUTTER.
Don't try using margarine or anything else. BUTTER is the best, longest lasting and safest lubricant on the shelves (or in the refrigerator) - you will probably need to either leave it at room temperature or warm it in your hands. Don't nuke it in the microwave as it loses it chemical composition, and hence friction reducing capacity.
Seriously this works the best, is the safest and cleanest, and it will allow you quick sliding thrust for the rocket engines. Just don't start mooing when you mount your heffer. It washes off easily.
Good luck, happy sliding!
2006-10-11 03:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by cortical contusion 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-11 03:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Just your average guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using any water-based lube like Astroglide.
I don't use any though. Don't need it.
2006-10-11 03:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only use a water based lube for vaginal sex and an oil based lube for anal. maximus is a good water based one.
Happy sliding
2006-10-11 03:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by ukusa75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use water-based lubes. Oil-based may cause irritation, and if using a condom, it may rip. Water-based is often softer, too.
2006-10-11 03:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your saliva is the best lube
2006-10-11 03:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by toni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only genitally mutilated (circumcised) men need to use lube for intercourse. It is almost always unpleasurable for the woman. Sorry, but there is little you can do.
2006-10-11 03:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋