he will not talk to me any more. the only time he talks to me is when he want to tell me that i am doing something wrong or to ask me to make dinner. most of the time i just want to shake the chit out of him. is there anyone out there that fells like me?
2006-10-10 18:27:31 · 6 answers · asked by Kia E 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i know how you feel. and it has nothing to do with sex an not getting any. he is just be complacent. tell him how it is and if that doesnt get his attention dump some icewater on his head.
2006-10-10 19:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't really have an answer, I just wanted to tell that, that was funny. Shake the chit out him. Then shake the chit out of him some more. HaHa!
2006-10-10 18:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't a prison sentence, it's an agreement. Both parties say, more or less, "I will be faithful to you, dedicate myself to your happiness and safety, and treat you always with love and respect." Your guy is in serious breach of contract.
Let him know that you love him and that if he's having personal problems you'll help him, but also that you have reasonable expectations of him. He welcomed you into his family, yet he's not even treating you like a friend.
Don't deal with him in anger, or else you'll only push him away and help him forget why he married you. But you have a right to be loved, ACTIVELY loved, and if not by him, you'll find someone else who will. Do your best to fix this relationship, but don't be afraid to let him go. If he doesn't respect the promises he made to you, then you're wasting your heart on him.
Best of luck.
2006-10-10 18:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 27 years and the only time I get testy with my wife is when she is not giving it up. I bet you are not delivering the goods. Men only need two things to keep us happy, content and willing to do what ever you want. I guess he is eating.... so you need to give him what you know he needs. Now I don't mean some mercy sex or pissed off sex... I mean some loving. Only two things..... really.
Oh yea he doesn't care that you get pissed off at him when he knows that he isn't getting any. What would be his incentive?
2006-10-10 18:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am deffinatly feeling you. I dont understand why he cant hold a civilized conversation but he cant. So I just stopped talking. All he does is ask stupid *** questions because he doesnt have **** to say to me. Dont waist your breath.
2006-10-10 19:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, no prob
2006-10-10 19:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋