almost every night, my friend's husband, alvin is seen dating the same girl all over town. i'm really concerned about my friend... i don't want to meddle in their marriage, though. how can i help her? should i stay quiet about these things and let her find out on her own?
2006-10-10 20:44:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her! Wouldn't you want to know if it was your husband?
2006-10-10 20:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Should i tell a friend that her husband is fooling around with another woman?
2014-12-15 22:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a true friend you would tell her. After all, wouldn't you want to know if it were YOUR husband? What I suggest you do is sit her down in a very comfortable chair and break the news to her gently and slowly. Oh, and make sure you have plenty of tissue paper on hand as it would be needed.
2006-10-10 21:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, even if you do it anonymously with a typed note of some sort. You would want her to tell you. If you aren't 100% sure, you could leave her the information that leads you to believe this like ' "Jill- I think you should go to Ruby's motel and knock on room number 220." PS look in the parking lot for your husband's license plate. Or - "Jill, you might want to watch Susan Jones. She seems to be a little close to your husband."
from, a friend.
2006-10-11 15:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by verticlygiftd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means tell her. She will find out sooner or later and she will be hurt more because you knew and did'nt tell her. When everyone else knows what your man is doing and you don't you feel like a double fool. The sooner she knows the sooner she can kick him to the curb and start working on a new life.
2006-10-10 23:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend you should at least let her know or tell her the location where she can find her husband dating another girl.
2006-10-10 21:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a word with the husband first. Then if he acts macho or something, tell ur friend abt it but be sure ur there for her reaction. a good friend is for that.
2006-10-10 22:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lovlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a friend youll do something,go to the husband tell him you know about her and if he doesnt tell her himself then you will. dont let him make your friend look like a fool while hes running around town with this chick..do something,he brought it out into the open, running all over town,i dont consider it meddling, do you?
2006-10-10 20:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by thicks 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her. She has the has the right to know, and you are a great friend to be looking out for her like that!
2006-10-10 21:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that a sin praying without a husband?
2016-10-27 19:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋