Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2006

She came over and asked to borrow some lighter fluid and I let her in while I went to get it out of the garage... She was completely naked when I returned.. She got very upset that I did not have sex with her...Iam afraid that my wife will find out about this and think I did it with her.....I know my wife and she is very paranoid about the ladies I work with ...my buddies wives or girlfriends....She does not trust me ...and I have never cheated in the 13 years together...I could have many times but I have not....Should I tell my wife I want to but...I am afraid it will open up a a big mess ...she will think I lead her on or something ....the truth is best.. but I know my wife????

2006-10-10 09:17:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does your husbands really think of your body during sex or in general after you have a baby or if you gain weight.

2006-10-10 09:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by Alicia W 1

How do you know if you are headed for one????

2006-10-10 09:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by nycgrl 2

Should I get another girl for a threesome? I don't think I'd hate it, I just don't want it to become a habit.

2006-10-10 09:08:50 · 44 answers · asked by justcurious 2

picturing the Little Mermaid. Does anyone else have this fantasy? My wife keeps asking me why I close my eyes every time we make love, and I can't tell her the truth. . .even worse, I've spent our entire savings account on costumes for the hookers I see. I've even paid for singing lessons for a couple of them, so they can do the songs for the movie. This is ruining my life! What should I do?

2006-10-10 09:04:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this ex who is controlling freak, I have sole custody of our almost 5 year old daughter he thinks he can be in my face about my life cause he is now paying support ..

He asked for me to stay out of his life and I have, and now almost 3 years happliy divorced he is still in my face about everything I do..

How do I say all you should care about is our daughter is Happy and stay out of my personal life without hurting his "pride"

2006-10-10 09:01:36 · 14 answers · asked by twistedsingle 4

My husband and I are separating and I am going to need a roommate-he informed me that I can not have a male -and thta if I get a female to move in -she is not allowed to have her boyfriend over---reason? because I would be an unfit mother-he will take my 5 y/o son
I think that would be discrimination-if I had a male roommate-and wrong for a female to not be allowed to have her boyfriend over??
I need to know what the laws are---so websites or info are appreciated

2006-10-10 09:00:39 · 10 answers · asked by bulldog lover 2

masurbating, would this offend you assuming your close to him and have already done stuff with him. Im also doing it so I can last longer for her and she knows it. I know i already asked but mostly guys answered.

2006-10-10 08:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

They say most men fantasize about doin it with two girls simultaneously or get aroused by watching any girl-on-girl activity. Sorry but I find that disgusting and I don't fantasize about being with two chicks at the same time. For me, I feel it takes away from the INTENSITY. Is this weird for a guy?

2006-10-10 08:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

She is constantly harassing us, tells him lies about his daughter to get her own way. Has left nasty phone messages, sent nasty e-mails, threating ones too. Showed up at our place asking me if I had been sleeping with her current BF. Am trying to get along with her but she absolutely despises me. Please help! This woman is nuts!!!!

2006-10-10 08:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a BF that I live with. We have been dating for 3 years.... It is boring... I have tried everything to spice it up. We have talked for hours about each others needs and wants. I love sex, he likes sex. I need it at least every other day, he will take it once every other week. He is as faithful, as the day is long and worships me. All of his friends adore me, I am fun, funny, sexy, educated and a great mom and I pamper him like crazy. I give him whatever he wants. We have very busy schedules, careers, kids, new home and he coaches at college level. Now myy ex husband (we were married 7 years) Is still deeply in love with me. I care about him but I am not in love with him. The sex we had was AWESOME! If he can't have me back, he at least wants to hook up every now and then no strings attached. No one would ever be the wiser. I have been thinking alot about doing it. I had this incredible dream about him last night and I am dying today.... Any Advise?

2006-10-10 08:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has debths for his buseness activities over 10 years ago. He is no longer employed and has no business. I just want to make sure that when we become married, the IRS will not ask me to pay his debts.

2006-10-10 08:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my BF asked me to marry him but the problem I am haveing is I want kids and he can not have any more!what should I tell him I mean I love him so much but the one thing I have always wanted he can not give me! I have always wanted kids and know he just tells me he can't have any when he asked me to marry him!!! I mean I am happy he told me but sooner would have been better! I mean I just do not know what to do and I really want my own and I don't wanna adopt. I kno it sounds mean but I have always wanted my own. what should I do???

2006-10-10 08:49:42 · 16 answers · asked by The Irish Princess 2

If you haven't heard from your kids father in 10+ years should you go looking?

2006-10-10 08:45:14 · 7 answers · asked by Walking on Sunshine 7

Or do they just "like" to go watch them as a form of retaliation?

2006-10-10 08:41:19 · 43 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

Nothing stupid please.

2006-10-10 08:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is a snapshot:

Married for 4 years together for 6
We had seperated for 2 months were we both dated and now we are back together...

We are doing GREAT everywhere EXCEPT in the bedroom...
We are communicating, we are spending time together... We are having alot of sex but it is not very good...
She claims it is AWESOME and she has been quite satisfied while I have been very unsatisified and it is not very good.

Any ideas ladies? I love her and want this to work I will do anything ANYTHING to make it work.

Thanks!

2006-10-10 08:38:28 · 17 answers · asked by Confused C 1

2006-10-10 08:37:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has a hard time peaking. I have tried going down on her and extended periods of foreplay. The only way I have been able to get to peak is with a vibrator for like 30 min and that only works part of the time. What can I do to get her there faster? HELP!

2006-10-10 08:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Paka 2

sure u know, that things when come upstream become so bad, i can't find a time to make love with my wife cause of her moan, we have neighbors, and she so load, and some times also children be in the flat so what can i do?

2006-10-10 08:35:22 · 23 answers · asked by chemistman 1

I have a BF that I live with. We have been dating for 3 years.... It is boring... I have tried everything to spice it up. We have talked for hours about each others needs and wants. I love sex, he likes sex. I need it at least every other day, he will take it once every other week. He is as faithful, as the day is long and worships me. All of his friends adore me, I am fun, funny, sexy, educated a great mom and I pamper him like crazy. I give him whatever he wants. We has a very busy schedule, careers, kids, new home and he coaches at college level. My ex husband (we were married 7 years) Is still deeply in love with me. I care about him but I am not in love with him. The sex was AWESOME! He wants to hook up every now and then no strings attached. No one would ever be the wiser. I had this incredible dream about him last night and I am dying today.... Any Advise?

2006-10-10 08:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband knows that I've wanted to have a baby but he doesn't. So just to reassure him, I take my birth control pill in front of him because I got pregnant with my first child while i was on the pill and I don't want my husband to think i did this behind his back. I have been irregular for a long time now and switched brands on my pill. my husband knows all of this. If I am pregnant, I'm scared to death he is going to think I planned it behind his back and I didn't. How would you handle this? Thanks.

2006-10-10 08:24:10 · 11 answers · asked by rideabanjopicker 2

My wife and I have been married for 11 years and have a great relationship. She lived in Georgia her whole life and I lived there for 12 years, we were less than 30 minutes away from both sets of parents and had many friends. I was offered a great opportunity in Texas and we made the decision to take it. I have been here over a year and my family just moved out 4 months ago. She is very unhappy as we have unfriendly neighbors and since she does not work outside of the home she is all alone all day. We get along great, it just kills me to see her so down. Anyone experience something similiar and got any ideas?

2006-10-10 08:20:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found pormlinks in the yahoo search box so i ask my husband about it and he says he has no idea how they got there....should i believe him.....i know he had a porm addection befor we met

2006-10-10 08:16:25 · 33 answers · asked by Georgia Girl 1

he think I should be happy there's more of him to love

2006-10-10 08:15:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband finally left a month ago but since then I havent received a penny for our 10 year old. I am on benefit now so money is tight. I dont want to go to the CSA unless I have to but I have no idea how much to ask for. Does it depend on ex's earnings? he is in between jobs just now.

2006-10-10 08:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by ? 7

into the house. Is that normal for women? Not just a hello, but a really loud "HI!"

2006-10-10 08:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-10-10 08:05:51 · 8 answers · asked by non-curious 2

2006-10-10 08:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is our 10 year anniversary in a few weeks. I already have a cabin with hot tub and jacuzzi tub rented and the best restruant to go out to. Any other suggestions to make our 10th special?

2006-10-10 08:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by me4tennessee 6