My wife has a hard time peaking. I have tried going down on her and extended periods of foreplay. The only way I have been able to get to peak is with a vibrator for like 30 min and that only works part of the time. What can I do to get her there faster? HELP!
2006-10-10 08:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Paka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just try focusing on enjoy each other. Don't concentrate on getting her to that point. She should focus more on enjoying what's going on. I must admit that I didn't climax each and everytime I had an encounter, but I sure did enjoy the encounter though. Relax and enjoy. A woman has to peak if the clitoris is being flicked correctly, check up on your skills buddy!
2006-10-10 08:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is this-- her orgasms are just that-- HERS. Not yours.
She should spend some time "alone" with herself, if you get my drift-- to try and determine what feels good to her. And, then she can teach you what it is. But it may never happen "faster." Some women take longer than others...
BTW-- be careful with the vibrators... too much stimulation with them actually causes numbness, which has the opposite effect to what you want!!
2006-10-10 15:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by answerlady1021 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez I dont know I am tuff to beat about 45 min for my man .......it only takes me to do for myself like 2 minutes.....maybe ask her what is her personal technique! For fun what her take care of herself and then learn!
2006-10-10 15:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU NEED SOME MEGA MEN VITAMINS!! LOL!!
2006-10-10 15:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋