She is constantly harassing us, tells him lies about his daughter to get her own way. Has left nasty phone messages, sent nasty e-mails, threating ones too. Showed up at our place asking me if I had been sleeping with her current BF. Am trying to get along with her but she absolutely despises me. Please help! This woman is nuts!!!!
2006-10-10 08:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unfortnaly there is nothing you can do you have to see her an ddeal with her since they share kids sorry
2006-10-10 09:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a harrassment suit against her. She sounds like real trouble. I hope you've saved all of the phone messages, emails. That should really help you. Try to distance yourself from this person as much as possible. What is your bf doing about all of this by the way?
2006-10-10 09:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex-girlfriend's problem isn't that you want her next, but is currently moving on with her ex. She see's him moving on without her, there for she's jealous. You boyfriend need to put her in check. People only do to you allow them to do to you. So if you guys let her know, that the drama stops, it will. Or you could treat her like a child. Just don't respond. A person can't fuss by themselves. Cause and Affect, She wants you to response to be upset to be bothered. Don't let her have control.
2006-10-10 09:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by T W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear this young lady is bitter, hurt, scorned if you will. It's not your job,place, nor responsibility to be friends with this nut job of a ex girlfriend. You focus on being a good girlfriend to your boyfriend, and helping him w/his daughter when he has her. Don't call his child's mother. Don't be present when she drops of baby. Don't go with him to pick baby up. What need is there for you to be present in those instances? You fall back. She only harasses him this much because he has moved on with his life, and she has moved on with her life only for face value. Don't allow your boyfriend to put you in the middle of this. Even though you guys live together, just go in another room when she drops off baby, or have him go to where the child is and pick her up.
That's his crazy ask baby mama.......not yours.
2006-10-10 09:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off it's not what you need to do it's what your Boyfriend needs to do. he is the one that use to date her. if he can't get her under control or feels like he don't need to do that then you need to let him go. yeah that's what she wants but seems like that's what he wants to because he isn't trying to defend you and trying to get her off your back.
2006-10-10 09:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a police report. If she's threatening, you can get a restraining order.
2006-10-10 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋