masurbating, would this offend you assuming your close to him and have already done stuff with him. Im also doing it so I can last longer for her and she knows it. I know i already asked but mostly guys answered.
2006-10-10 08:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont think it s offending its natural all men do it all the time at least your using your hand and not going else where i would whether share w/ a hand then another girl
2006-10-10 09:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
To answer your question, it wouldn't offend me at all. I know that guys are guys and they like things like masurbating and watching porn and spending sports night with their buddies. It's all part of the reality of knowing men and how they act, and I am more than realistic about those things. Some girls might be offended at it, but I personally am not.
You might want to consider how open and caring your relationship is. If she can't understand why you do it then you need to explain it to her as best you can. My boyfriend said that he only masurbates for the physical gratification of it but prefers doing things with me because in additional to the physical there is also emotional ties that far outweigh anything physical. If the same applies to you then tell that to your girlfriend and maybe she can understand it more and generally not be offended at it.
Hope I was of some help!
~~Cari
2006-10-10 09:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cari Malmström 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Most women are secure enough to not be offended by something like that. It's a personal issue and you should ask your woman. But I'm pretty sure she wouldn't mind. It's a natural thing and most guys probably do it. So don't sweat it.
2006-10-10 09:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've caught my boyfriend before and can't see how it would bother anyone. It's a perfectly natural thing. If you are doing it to last longer for her, how about doing it together with some foreplay then having sex after? If it's really just for your own pleasure, that's ok too. Sometimes it's just as good for a man to pelasure himself. It's variety.
2006-10-10 09:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have caught 2 of my boyfriends and all I could do was laugh. Not in a bad way but the fact that we are both embarrassed. It isn't a big deal really. Just go with it, or laugh it off.
2006-10-10 09:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your penis has been there for you a lot longer than her. Tell her to suck it up and not be so insecure. This is a part of what guys do...and girls mind you. If she is so insecure that she's "offended" by you doing what comes naturally...tell her to find a nice religious boy that doesn't touch himself for fear of going to hell.
2006-10-10 09:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like to do this to themselves. It's a different feeling then being with a girl. I wouldn't worry about it. If it totally offends you, then tell him so.
2006-10-10 09:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care....as long as he's not cheating. Most guys just do it. I would say...."hey you need any help baby?" I don't let little stuff like that bother me and neither should anyone. Now if he doesn't want sex and stuff like that then there's a problem.
2006-10-10 09:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men have a relation with palmela....Its nothing to be worried nor offended about really. Ive caught my bf doing it and it doesnt phase me.
2006-10-10 09:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wouldn't offend me at all... I know he masturbates, it's not a problem.
(I know he would be embarrassed if I walked in on him, I would probably just tease him and tell him to lock the bathroom door next time!)
2006-10-10 09:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋