If you haven't heard from your kids father in 10+ years should you go looking?
2006-10-10 08:45:14 · 7 answers · asked by Walking on Sunshine 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was 19 my mother told me my dad was "another guy" than I had been told.
Never did find ole' dad until I read his obit in the local paper. He had moved across the country, changed his name and started a 3rd family. If he isn't interested in finding you don't cast your pearls before the swine. Forget about the bum.
2006-10-10 08:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bit late for that. If he hasn't been around for more than 10 years, you have no idea who or what he is. Why risk bringing a strange man (a stranger!) into the children's lives? He's basically just been a sperm donor at this point.
2006-10-10 15:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! If he has been gone that long with no contact, he is just a loser anyway. If the kids want to find him when they are old enough to care, let them find him then.
2006-10-10 15:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by teresaperry1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother, if he wanted to have anything to do with your kids he would of from the very first moment they were born.
2006-10-10 15:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by debs1701 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if for not other reason than to make him financially responsible for those kids!
2006-10-10 16:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by gator girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just to give him one more chance and give him the benefit of the doubt. he might know how to contact you
2006-10-10 15:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, they are probably in the lost and found.
2006-10-10 16:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋