In a discussion yesterday with my wife has admitted to looking up a ex boyfriend on the internet. He is a musician and has a web site about his band and where they are playing. Should I be worried about it? I aksed her if she would mind if i did the same and she got very defensive about it....She never anwsered my question.
2006-10-10 19:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I must add that she has never cheated and has always been completly honest with me. I do trust her. I don't think she is planning to cheat on me. She says she has not spoke with this guy in 6 years and was courious about his band?
2006-10-10 19:49:53 · update #1
That would have to depend on her intentions for looking him up. If she is just curious about him and it's a one time thing, then just let it go. If this is some kind of obsession for her then u got something to worry about.
2006-10-10 19:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my 3-year-old would say, "YES-UH-HUH!"
There is no good reason for a happily married person to seek out an ex. And this is coming from someone who's done it.
There are lots of bands out there. For this one special band, she needs to just let the music pass her by. It's not important enough to risk putting a strain on the marriage.
2006-10-10 19:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, has she cheated before? Do you trust her? Keep an eye on her and see. Maybe shes just curious to see where and how hes doing or maybe shes planning something? If she leaves and she is shady about it,do some investigating. Im sure it was on myspace to, that website is trouble I tell ya. Good luck to ya man.
2006-10-10 19:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should bother you. But it could be just curiosity. I looked up an ex 2 years ago out of curiosity. I didn't cheat, but it was implied in the arguments.
2006-10-10 20:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by planedws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely keep my eye on her. She's obviouslyt thinking about her. I'm going through kind of the same thing and it is hurtful. Good luck.
2006-10-10 19:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by bellagirl1414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would bother me big time, why the need to see an ex???
2006-10-10 19:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be upset if I was you. What is her purpose? If she wont stop then start talking with any online girls and leave it for her to find and tell her you will stop when she does Good luck
2006-10-10 21:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not fair that she got defensive when you ask if you did it. YOu should be worried about it. If I were you, I would tell her she has no right to look him up.
2006-10-10 21:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a little insulting on my part if i was the husband.. why would she be interested in him if she's not planning of something else...
2006-10-10 19:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋