i cant think for myself or speak to another man even at a grocerie store am i stuck or will he change? i love him but hes wacked help me out here k
2006-10-10 09:38:59 · 24 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pinch him back. Hard. Pinch him every time a female walks by. Then dump him.
2006-10-10 13:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds controlling to me. You are never stuck in anything,it's only if you choose to be stuck. I would pinch him back or yell ow really loudly. Or pinch him when he looks at or talk to another woman. He sounds like he has some issues and he is insecure. I wonder if you told him that he doesn't need to worry about you wondering off but I would definately tell him that if he keeps pinching you he will have to worry about your relationship. If he doesn't stop then I'd get out quick before that pinching turns into something worse that he'd do to you.
2006-10-10 16:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK - another question - about the same thing.
YOU are looking for reasons to get out of your marriage. No, he shouldn't be pinching you. But based on your last question, and now this...
Do the guy a favor and cut him loose. You are the one who seems to be un-stable and you must have rushed into marriage. Why don't you stop talking on the internet and start talking to your husband. Go to counseling. Get some help!
2006-10-10 16:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO he has issues. He is very insecure that you can not even talk to another guy. That is not a healthy relationship, Do you want to bring kids into that environment? You need to ask him to 1-be secure in himself and your marriage 2- trust you 3-seek counseling if he can't do 1 & 2
Marriage is built on trust and he has none. Not to mention the slight abuse...not healthy. He wont' change on his own though.
2006-10-10 16:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone like this... This is confusing to me.
STOP RIGHT NOW!!! Do not have any children with this looser, and get a divorce.
There are guys out there that don't treat women this way.
You deserve better, but you have to do this for yourself.
Learn to love yourself first, be independent. Stand up for yourself.
2006-10-10 16:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't change. Pinch him if he looks at another girl. If you have a bruise, have him arrested for domestic battery.
2006-10-10 16:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Geez, tell your husband to grow up. How the hell did you wind up with an insecure child for a husband anyway? He's not going to grow out of it. He needs help....like therapy.
2006-10-10 16:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Eldude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he pinches you punch him in the arm, in the same spot every time. Take Controll!!!
2006-10-10 16:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Marcie E 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are the same person who just asked a question about liking Mexican men with tattoos, it sounds like both YOU and YOUR HUSBAND have issues.
2006-10-10 16:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Golden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think about dumping this loser. Any man that hurts a woman is a coward and a low life. 86 this guy ASAP!
2006-10-10 16:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋