2006-10-10 02:51:43 · 30 answers · asked by xtyn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, You should talk to him about it and try to resolve your issues. Don't involve other people in your personal life. That's when things become complicated.
2006-10-10 02:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't OK and it's not proper.
Complaining about your spouse to other people is not going to change anything and will only cause more problems.
Talk with your spouse and try to make positive suggestions .
2006-10-10 02:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on what you are complaining about.
Like not picking up after himself or taking out the garbage ect... that kind of stuff is okay cause saying it in front of them don't work they just ignore it.
Talking about the way he is in bed or more personal stuff then no it is not okay to tell the world cause people do twist things around allot.
2006-10-10 03:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you have a complaint about your spouse you need to address it with them. What if it got back around to your spouse that you were dragging other people into your business?
2006-10-10 02:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just found out my husband has been complaining about me via email with a female business associate and I am not happy about it. It may actually be what brings on the divorce.
2006-10-10 13:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by michelle p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, only if they are married and understand. Never to a "single" best friend, single women never can understand, all they says is "girl, I wouldn't put up with that, you should leave" then you start wishing you were single and free and didn't have to pick behind his *ss or, hear him snore, or listen to him b*tch and complain first thing he walks in the door, or his selfish ways....I'm sorry, thinking of my own hubby and venting LOL. Yeah it's fine to complain.
2006-10-10 02:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what it's about.
if it's personal and embarassing then I say not to do it.
put yourself in their situation. if they said something like that about you, would you be ok with it or not. if not, then don't say it about them.
if it's a bunch of you ladies sitting around talking about things that your spouse does that annoy you. be careful what you say. because they will repeat the entire conversation again in front of their husbands.
2006-10-10 02:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you really shouldn't. Since your spouse can't defend themselves, it is unfair and you carry the bad vibe with you. It's okay to vent about your life, but don't get into specifics.
2006-10-10 02:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a very very good friend you can talk to her but be sure the informatioon keeps between you both sometimes the people like to talk about another peoples business so be careful!!!
2006-10-10 03:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember you may forgive your spouse & move on, but your friend will always remember.
2006-10-10 03:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋