What is wrong with this picture, I am married and my wife is very distant to me. I do everything possible for this woman. Her life is not boaring by any means nessesary i help her with the house and am supportive of her in any way i can be. We are talking about divorce and she has stated on multiple times she still wants sex from me because she says its the best she has ever had. She is not living in a a shitty place i make 8,700 a month for christ sake. She is attracted to me sexually like what was stated above but..... I do not know what her problem is to consider divorce.
2006-10-10 22:52:05 · 24 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seek counseling to find out her issues so that you can address them. She obviously is not comfortable with discussing it with you right now. Maybe she is confused about her feelings on many differnent levels. Good Luck.
2006-10-10 22:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out for a meal and having a good chat about why she really honestly wants a divorce and if there is anyway you both can work on it!
I think like what the other people have said on here, she may have fallen out of love with you, which happens!
But yeah go for a nice meal relax have a chat, dont pressure her, but say i just need to understand why you want this divorce. Good Luck i hope its goes ok :o)
2006-10-10 23:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it sounds so strange and I don't know why you both married each other then she don't love you but she wants sex from you. How long you two have been married? Did she loves you from the beginning of the marriage? If so, you both maybe had something have been changed that caused some problems between each other. So please make some nice communication with her and find out the problems. Good lucky!
2006-10-10 23:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is taking you and what you do for her for granted. I would approach her with counseling. Communication is the key to a wonderful relationship. Sex is good and all, but it does not take its place by no means. I hope things get better!
2006-10-10 23:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've changed.
Try to be the man you were when you first met, that was what created the spark between you, now it has gone out.
(Alright, I'm not a lady, but even I can see the problem here.)
2006-10-10 22:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by tgypoi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything you say is accurate it is possible she doesn't love you and wants to leave but thinks you're a nice guy and says nice things to spare your feelings. Or she has a mental problem and can't be too attached to anybody.
2006-10-10 22:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she dont love you anymore but cant find a subsitute yet so it is you for the time being and then she will take off once she found some1 else.
2006-10-10 23:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i have this book.. because my husband will NOT go to counseling.. its called a walk into paradise.. it is by jimmy evans.. and man its a wonderful book.. it describes marriage perfectly and makes you understand what it's supposed to be like. i recommend it to everyone married not married divorced dating.. because it has good basic life things too
2006-10-10 22:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not love you ?she may not appreciate you.love grows out of kindness and passion.let her go ,she will realize later just what love for her you offered,she will want that again,but going back may not be the same.you can't make someone want you,continue to be a good man,there are plenty of women out here praying for a decent man to love them.
2006-10-10 22:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the woman has problems in her life and thinks by divorcing will be like running away from it and thinks its for the best.or mabe lacking something somewhere.
2006-10-10 22:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋